As with most days in my life - nowadays - im approaching more women than I have ever wanted to. I don't keep track or anything of the number of women I have approached, met, and slept with, but if I had to, id say I've approached well over 2k women in the year ive been doing this, and have I become fail-proof? You would think anyone with so much experience would be the flawless player, but in reality, the game of seduction is like any other type of game. No matter how good you have become through your determined efforts and accumulated experience, (sorry guys, this post should probably be in the philosophy area of this forum)you will always have your bad days. just like the great sports figures of this century- we have our ups and downs. If Tiger woods were flawless then he would have already surpassed Palmers record in grandslams, but hes not; we're not. We'll make mistakes and we will fail no matter how good we think we are or how far we have come. Today proved that for me as I was rejected faster than a blind man applying for a drivers license by a an extremely attractive HB 9 I saw in the coffee shop. So there I am seated at my fav spot when she walks in. As always the desire that pulsates through my body whenever I see a beautiful women is uncontrollable but I control it nonetheless as I don't want to make my Playboy status too obvious within the community I reside in. I wait until she has finished ordering her coffee than I follow her to her car (sounds kind of creepy, I know, but if you were to see me in action it would seem so natural you wouldn't bother to a second look) and just before she gets in I make my move,

"you there" I open.

HB9: "Me" (with a strange, somewhat scared look on her face)

I quickly calm her nerve with a good level of positive energy all radiated through the smile on my face and the vibe that I am exuding.

Me: "WOW, you're fuxking beautiful ..."

Before I could finish, she cuts me off.

HB9: "I have a boyfriend, but your so sweet. Listen honey, I would love to stay and talk, but I have to run, really. but have a nice day now and thank you for the compliment " then she gets in the car.

She's very pleasant, cool, and calm about it too. She owned the world
and everything in it in that precise moment, and I was sucked right into
her world, damn!!!

I met my match, and she won, this time.

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Looks like you had an off day, read her wrong? Not sure but with that response i could only understand that a straight up approach especially a strong one like that was a little bit much.

Im not one to use straight up tactics like that during the day but ive been blown off like that at bars before, i think its just how strong you come in.

Youve got balls though! lol got to give you that!

even for direct game wasn't that a little strong? the cursing might have turned her off.

Refraining from swearing will help you in the long run... especially when first approaching.


Sounds like you came on a little too strong.

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The best nookie is chinookie.

I agree with Streamer.

But damn guys, the fact that she refuses to let him go along can not only result from a bad approach but from her will to be faithfull. Good girls are so rare in this ruthless world, let us dream!


Vikiz

what kind of game was that man? while direct approaches can work, yours was just WAY too strong. the cursing, the use of the word beautiful, etc. you came on too strong, tone it down a bit next time. i also agree with the posters above me about not cursing. better luck next time man.

yeah, you deff came on way to strong, and the whole "fuxking" didnt help out much either. you showed way to much interest and basically put her on a throne with that comment. dont directly point out a woman's looks, but yet compliment something she might have on like shoes or a pocket book while goin direct.