so i've been in the community for a couple of months now. i go out at least once a week, and i have a few routines that i use continuously. sometimes it hooks, sometimes i get numbers, etc. but i feel i don't "really" learn that much,as much as i should be learning? is this about getting as much experience as you can and learning more and more lines you can use in situations you encounter? or is there something more fundamental i should be getting here? i just feel kind of jaded and not sure if i am on the right path here....

Don't focus so much on the lines and the doing of it, but instead more on understanding how and why what you're doing is or isn't working. If you don't understand what is occurring, then you can't improve on what needs fixing and you can't continue to do what you are already doing well. This is why you're getting inconsistant results. Learning about attraction is more than just doing, it's about comprehending the underlying principles behind why you are doing what you're doing and why she reacts the way she reacts.

Once you begin to truly grasp these concepts, it'll just start to click and you'll learn way faster.

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You need to understand some of the basic principles of the game...
These are the most important points:
- Social value - how to increase/decrease value
- Alpha male behaviour - assuming the role of the leader
- Inner game - Confidence
- The timeline of a sarge - when to do what, why does M2F interest come after F2M interest?

That is basically what you need to know theoretically to get started (for maximum improvement).

BUT!
The most important thing however is to sarge, to practice! Practice practice practice!
You go out once a week, that is great most people cannot take the tme to go out more often or cannot afford it. My advice to you is to make the most of your time in the field.
Approach every single set! Talk to everyone! Be prepared to crash and burn! This is the best way to smash AA.

Different sets are good for different things: All male sets - learn social skills. Mixed sets - great for everything, watch and learn from the guys in the set. All temale sets: Duh! This is what you are after!

Everything you do out in the field is practice! When I crash and burn and get rejected in the most vicious way I do not care. I see this as an opportunity to improve. Why would a stranger affect me. Why should I care? A bitchy girl is only a girl with a well developed bitch shield!
Do not fear rejection, welcome it!

Ezo

this article helped me a lot:

http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Get-Gi ... id=1344562

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