I met this chick on myspace which turned into texting daily(about 2 weeks). She let me know she had a bf pretty quick into the texting. I've basically pretended he doesn't exist. Ran a few bf destroyers but haven't really tried to kill their relationship specifically. I decided to quit texting her and just reply to her texts a few days ago. Since she keeps flirting with me. She actually sent me a pic of her in her bra just today. I can't figure this chick out. Everytime I go to mention somewhere to meet she backs down. I asked her to go to an event with me last weekend and she flaked. Everything has been myspace and texting. Should I drop it....or if I keep going how do I get a day 2(not sure if this correct). I feel like I'm on a fucking treadmill.

If she flaked on you, then FORGET HER. You're getting some serious one-itis with this chick.

Some women(I should say MOST) are extremely flirty because they enjoy the rush of exciting another man. They love the attention. You have to learn to spot that insincere interest from a woman. I.E.: flaking, hot/cold, etc.

There's more women out there, man.

Good luck.

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This girl wants to sleep with you, she just wants to blame you for it. Hold in there, don’t get discouraged, and you should be able to f-close soon. She mentioned she had a bf so she wouldn’t feel guilty about sleeping with you later (women think it’s your job to stop when they mention a bf, and if you don’t, in her mind, it’s your fault). She’s obviously into you if she sent you a pic of her in a bra. She’s probably just flaking based on how you ask her to meet. If you say lets go out on a date or make it seem like a date, her anti-slut defense kicks in and she will flake. Tell her your going somewhere (make it seem like your going with or without her), then ask her if she want to tag along. This way no anti-slut defense, and she might show up.

Cleanmarks had a point about the oneitis. You must make sure that she doesn’t perceive that you’re too invested in her. That is a huge DLV in her eyes. You’ve punished her bad behavior (on accident) by showing her less attention, that was very good. That’s probably why she sent you the pic, she wanted to make up for acting bad. You on good ground right now, try not to mess it up by being too afc and emotional. Put it into perspective and don’t get ahead of yourself. One step at a time. Try to get a kiss, then a little more, then an f-close. Then after that, and only after that, should ideas of relationships enter your mind. You seem like someone who would benefit from reading some Amog theory; you might want to browse in that section on this forum.

I am impressed by your myspace game. It’s very good if you were able to get a taken girl to send you dirty pics that quickly, not to mention the #close. Good Job!

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She asked me to meet up at a bar she was playing darts at. I think her bf was possibly there, so I decided I would pass. This is all untreaded water to me, and to be honest, I'm morally alittle uncomfortable about it and I tend to get oneitis anyway. I told her I might pop in, but I had no plans to.

I think you guys are correct though. She seems to be an attention whore and wants me to be the scape goat if it does go down. I kind of want the F-close but more on my terms. If we do- then I think she should come to my place or some shit like that. Either way I think she might have some head problems, so i might drop it.

Is this a typical phenomnon in these cases? I mean girls can seriously justify this shit to themselves
Is there any hope of a decent relationship with a chick like this?

Savage

yeah man, it sounds like she's willing to cheat on her boyfriend but she also doesnt want to be a slut, so she's trying to wait for an opportunity which she can justify it happening. try going to the bar with her, invite her to your place afterwards because you have to quickly show her something or introduce her to your fish or whatever. tell her she cant stay long because you have to get up early and you'll be golden if you play your cards right.

its also possible that she really wont cheat on him though and that you're just a bit of text fun that she wont act upon, or at least thats what she's telling herself.

She only seems like a head case, because women's minds are different than ours. We don't care whose fault it is, as long as we get laid. We don't have to worry about labels like whore or slut, they do. So let them justify it any way they want it, if she doesn't do it with you she will just turn around and do it with some other guy.
As for hope for a relationship, my advice would be to make her a booty call at best. If she is willing to cheat now because she craves attention, then she will be willing to do it later when she's with you.