Hey guys,

So I have started college and have learned alot about picking up girls so far till now.Last night we had a party with my room mates and some other people.One of my room mates girl friend came over and brought her friend the girl that was in my bed last night.So I'm talking to her friend who is really hott about 5,1 ,100 Ibs black hair cheer leader for our college foot ball team so she is pretty hott.Her and I played a game of beer pong her vs me.She said if she wins she gets to sleep in my bed and I'm out on the coach,long story short I lost she was said have fun sleeping on the coach tonight.


I got kind of lost now.I'm about to get go to sleep on the coach when she was like you can sleep with me you dont have to sleep on the coach.I get into my room and she is in my bed getting undressed then just goes to sleep.I was like WTF?I had a hott girl in my bed but I did't do any thing,I feel like a loser.

What did I do wroung?The hole night when we played beerpong and she made a cap she was like thats for you love IOI?When I would make a cup she would like but her hands on my body and be like good shot love.

Sorry for the long post I just don't want to make the same mistake because she is coming over agian the Friday night...

You have to initiate kino early and escalate it smoothly in accordance to her compliance. If you had done that with her the other night, boning her in your bed would have come a lot more naturally.

By the way, it's "couch." A coach is a dude who tells you what to do on the football field.

Ok thanks for the tip.

well first off a million things coulf of gone wrong and since were not there we can only take a guess at helping you out...

i agree with chief,
you may of not got her comfort levels up perhaps....but you may have but didnt make a move........think about it???

cause in my experience "not to many girls" who want it or even slightly want it pull you into the bed get on you and start doing shit with you...MOST the time the girl puts it in the guys hands to make the move, cause going through her head could be the SAME questions that are goign through yours

"does he want to have sex?
is he into me?

know what im saying

come on man!! grow a brain and a pair of nuts.....if you want to have sex with this girl what did you expect she was just gonna say
hey! wanna do it?

you were suppose to sleep on the coach but she invited you into the room...now there has got to be some sort of comfort level there......all you had to do was play your cards right and you would of been having a GOOD time if you know what i mean......so next time make a move


and i dont mean move like immediatly make out with her that could get you slapped if you got the wrong impression but i am saying read the situatoin and move accordingly......perhaps you should of put in a movie and watched it, or played a game, or something to give you time to make that move that you want to make.........cause the minture you walked into that bedroom you dont have alot of options as of what to do........

so next time either kiss her if your feeling lucky, say im gonna watch a movie how bout you join. just whatever you can think of

its up to you really, but whatever went wrong it was on account of you and im sure you know that...


it was either you hadnt brought up enough comfort in her for her to want to sleep with you...or you have trouble reading body language cause hell her body could of been saying ocme get me, or she was waiting for you to grow a pair and make a move but you didnt..

like i said before millions of scenarios are possible.....

personnaly, what i would of done is teased them a bit and went for the kiss and worked from there, or teased a bit and/or palm read (and side note i dont konw how to palm read, but come on do they really know that i dont .)...and then look into there eyes for a bit and just go for it...

but thats just me hey! if i got the wrong idea o well ill move on, its not like ill go to jail for me trign to kiss her...plenty of girls our there

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Man you f*** up she wasn't asleep she was faking it. She was waiting for you to roll over on top of her.

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exactly, this girl had her eyes closed but she was not trying to go to sleep she was waiting on you. you should have got in bed and immediately put your hands around her and go from there..

Thanks guys I messed up big time. I'll try harder next time.I kind of got mixed sighs from her.But like you guys posted she probley wanted me to make a move on her when she was in my bed..