I have no problem with approachig girls and getting their numbers. my opener has just been..excuse me..do you have a boyfriend?

I think it works because it conveys everything you want to know with in a 5 word sentence.

So i get the number and I throw compliments here ad there and I am attractive so cheesy ones work for me...however, when I get their number i have no idea how long to wait...if I wait to long they dont respond..if I dont wait long enough they dont respond...its weird.

For instance, i got this one girls number last night and I sent her a text message saying that I needed er ln so i culd put it in my fone bc i am very picky with that and she did not respond to me...

Another thing happened when I used that line on my friends friend and i was talking to her that night..then after insinuating that we should hang out she stopped responding to me...

I just need help from getting their number to actually seeing htem

Well sometimes girls give out their numbers just because it is easier than explaining to a guy she isnt actually into him and take a chance on him getting mad

what it sounds like to me is that you're perhaps not building attraction, but rather just handing out compliments, the boyfriend opener might be coming on a bit too strong and thats why they dont ever respond, women put up shields and barriers if a guy comes on too strong, especially if out of no where hes asking a personal question like that, if she says no that means shes vulnerable, but if she says yes that means she cant flirt.

I would just open with the old "hey looks like the party is over here, hows everyone doing" of course the tried and true hello is always welcome, but as mentioned by others its not what you tell women so much as how you say it, although the bf opener may still be a lil much, th fact you compliment or make cheesey pick up lines may also be a limiting factor women have heard all of these things before and its nothing new to them now they just enjoy having men after them and rejecting them giving them an undeserved power. So try negging them my all time favorite is "wow you have gorgeous hair but is it real?" the compliments also may be telling them you are trying to hard for attention and have nothing to offer than making them feel superior,


I also apologize but could you perhaps explain this to me Im a bit confused on what you mean and maybe I could help more:

For instance, i got this one girls number last night and I sent her a text message saying that I needed er ln so i culd put it in my fone bc i am very picky with that and she did not respond to me...

i dont like direct game. "do you have a boyfriend" is pretty AFC in my opinion.
read mystery's book. it'll change the way you interact with women and get you where you want to be. seriously, thats the best advice i can give you. i went from being a heartbroken sack of shit AFC to being able to get numbers fairly constantly, and even had an f-close in a little over a month after finishing that book.
get it. read it. do it.
good luck man.

i meant last na,e...i needed to get her last name and that was what i wanted..now she has not hit me back at all so I have no idea wat to do...i want to get with her..hw can i save myself from this?

I am sorry but this forum is hard to navigate lol so finding a specific answer is tough...

i have also been using the boyfriend thing for a while nd i hvae had a few fcloses from using it...the cheesy lines just dont appeal ot me..

and whats
AFC?

AFC is an acronym for Average Frustrated Chump.
if you dont have game, you're an AFC. if you're learning game, you're a rAFC (r = recovering)

i didnt mean that you should use cheesy lines, and it's not about what appeals to you, its what appeals to the women.
asking them if they have a boyfriend is like going up and asking if you could buy them a drink. i stinks of interest, interest which she hasnt earned and she knows that. you are just like every other AFC who's spoken to her as soon as those words leave your mouth.

read mystery's book.

so how should i get girls numbers then?

and how much is this book ad where can i find it?

its going to be very tough, what I think may have happened is you may have been to direct with her, and it may have creeped her out, rather than text you can try a call, but if she doesnt return either it may be time to take the hint, other than that though i say go out, meet more women, I wouldnt really sayits imperative to read mystery's book but it couldnt hurt I for one have not picked it up yet, but plan to, also like i told other people before , dont be too direct and never be too available otherwise theres no chase, and wheres the fun in that?

as for using cheesey lines, nothing can be more cheesey/ afc than do you have a bf, at this point the only way to go is up.