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PostPosted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 5:55 am 
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Well after my last post of deciding to call it quits, I decided to call it starts. I'm back on my feet and ready to learn.

So here's the situation. I got an HB9 out to a shopping/lunch date, though it didn't end with attraction, but instead being friend zoned. I was confirmed this by a mutual friend of ours by her telling him "I think he's funny and cool, but I hope he doesn't like me. I want to be friends". After that, I've been freezing her out, only communicating via text if I need info on homework in the class we're in. Today I was told by that same mutual friend that she's annoyed at me for not even acknowledging her presence in class, and that she genuinely wanted to be friends with me. Now, I'm wondering if this is salvageable and if I could somehow build attraction after everything that's gone on. What do you guys think?


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 6:38 am 
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"she's annoyed at me for not even acknowledging her presence in class"

Honestly, I think that's a step forward. You're causing emotions in her that's outside of her asexual categorization of you.
You were in the friend zone because she became too comfortable with you being friendly to her. Now, she's uncomfortable with the thought of having any more than that with you.

I say rock the boat, brother. Tease her about how she was getting annoyed that you weren't talking to her. Counter her emotions by making her think that you think she's crazy about you. Interpret everything she does as a pass at you.

Good luck, man.

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 7:00 am 
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It all depends on why you ended up in the friend zone. If it was for lack of kino, that could be fixed. But if you went all Afc or DLVed in some other dramatic way, that could be a bigger problem.
Personally I have never been a big fan of the freeze out, I know it has its uses, but it has always seemed a little too passive aggressive to me. Not to mention it was never intended to be used to try and get out of the friend zone. It was intended to be used to punish girl’s behaviors, whom are actively interested in you to begin with. You cannot foster attraction with a freeze out, attraction must already exist for a freeze out to accomplish anything.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 7:07 am 
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I'm not out to rat my friend out for feeding me that information. He's a good friend of mine and knows I'm into the PUA material. So he's here to work with me, not against.


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I'm sorry I read the story really fast and I must have misread it. I thought it was her friends who told you what she said. That changes everything. My bad.


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