Just want to start off and say Hi here.

If my name and Subject header didn't give it away, then I'll just state it here: I'm a girl in her 20s. Born in Japan, raised in Canada.

So that's moi in a nutshell

More women?
They are breeding here like rabbits!

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Howdy Ariel.. Welcome to the forum.

What do you do? You a student or what?

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Also curious, what brought you here?

from that it sounds like u think this is a dating site..
an i rnt bein harsh, jus made me chuckle.

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Giacomo - shall I put on my stripper playboy bunny outfit?

Starbuck - Thanks for the welcome note. I'm both student and worker bee.

C-DUB - Probably for similar reasons why you're here Even before The Game was published I'm already pretty good at the art of pick-up. I guess curiousity can kill the cat but I'm a bad kitty.

Enigma87 - neg much?

Well I guess I'll be the first one to say welcome.

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Come here..... kitty...

What part of Canada are you from? And what do you study, when you're not being a worker bee?

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Welcome to the forums. I've long been a supporter of the FPUA movement, and my favorite "wingman" (wings of the opposite sex are called pivots; this is a pet peeve of mine) is my long-term girlfriend, Mocha.

I'm not sure where exactly the best information on Female Pick-up can be found; Mocha and I have been working for a while to set down some cold guidelines to how it can be done, but it's a totally different style of game, so it's taking a lot of trial and error. We've found that the most important part of girl-game, what sets it apart from what guys do, is that women have no trouble getting men into bed; getting QUALITY men into bed and sorting through the chaff is the difficult part.

Let me know how you stand on that.

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Monkey, 99.9999% of the quality men are married.

That means you either have to settle for a work in progress (a young, immature confused fellow) hoping you can make something of him, a meet you halfway relationship with an already married man knowing nothing long term will ever come of it, or try to steal him away from his wife (which is questionable).

You know the deal.

So, when are you and your girlfriend coming to South Carolina?

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We're not, but when I get my workshop up and running, I expect to see you in Edmonton.

The idea that 99.99% of decent men are married is shit. That's like saying that 99.99% of the women we're interested in talking to are taken. It's simply not true. There are a lot of good guys out there, but separating them from the dicks can be a very difficult thing to do, for a few reasons.

Women need to establish very firm standards as to what makes a decent man and what does not. Everyone is looking for different things out of a relationship, so she needs to know which features are important to her. Then she needs to make sure the men she's with have those qualities.

Women are expected to supplicate to men they desire. A woman who wants a decent guy has to run counter-intuitive on this and hard qualify. If she sees a pretty piece of flesh across the room, she needs to be able to walk away if he fails to meet her standards.

It's a tricky process. We're still working on it.

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I agree to a point.. But I still stand by my statement.

I like the 80/20 rule. Which just says that 80% of the women are worth being involved with, but only 20% of the men. And that 20% are quite popular. They typically get the best choices when it comes to women. That's why most of them tend to be married, unless young and inexperienced, or rich, rock star, etc...

Competition in the workplace hasn't helped matters either. Both men and women have become less sure about exactly what their roles are in the whole process. It used to be so much simpler.

The dating game in todays world by comparison is an exercise in frustration, miscommunication, suspicion and discomfort. We have a saying around here, without alcohol 1/2 the relationships wouldn't occur at all. The rest are a result of economic realities, frustration, or Johnny strong arming little betty in the back seat with no protection.

Not hard to figure out why 50% of marriages end in divorce. Grass is always greener on the other side of the hill I suppose. Until you really get to know 'em and have to live with 'em daily. That tends to seperate the men from the boys. Must be that mystery method again.

It's definately a two way street. And a largely corrupted exercise.

I'd dig coming to Edmonton.

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I think that's a really self-limiting belief to have, Starbuck. Only 20% of the men in the world are worth being with? Um... No. Even if it was true, that 20% would not be the most popular; basic psychology tends to keep women from being attracted to men for qualities that make them good relationship partners. THAT is why 50% of marriages end in divorce. Women are attracted to men who do not make good partners.

Setting specific requirements for your next partner, and ensuring that he or she meet those requirements is something we should all be doing...

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Women like men who don't make good relationship partners..?

Let's rephrase that.

Women will settle for men that don't make good relationship partners if that's all that's available, or if they have something in their psychology or a lack of experience that prevents them from doing so.

Women have been choosing good providers and relationship partners for millions of years. Nothing has changed in that regard except economics.

If a woman is simply looking for anything with a dick to sleep with, then many choices exist.

Let's not confuse young, immature women with mature, intelligent women. There of course is a difference. Which do you prefer?

I suppose it depends upon whether you like paying her bills or not, and putting up with her irrational tirades. It's the same in this regard for both sexes.

A good relationship partner also defaults to a good one night stand if desired. Backwards compatible if you will. On the other hand a woman that prefers abuse whether emotional or physical is not a healthy woman. And one that I avoid at all costs. Most of the time it was due to their poor choices in men. I hope they enjoyed the sex.

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I didn't say they liked those men. I said they are attracted to those men. The rebels and the bad-asses. The _jerks_. Getting around that initial attraction, women often do find men who are loving and giving and wonderful to be with. Sometimes, men who give off that initial bad-ass vibe are actually nice guys, with a layer of facade. But finding those men can be a challenge.

Set out what is important to you; do you want a bad-ass (a real bad-ass, as opposed to the bad-ass-on-the-outside-sweet-sensitive-guy-on-the-inside)? do you want someone who is knowledgeable? do you want someone that can entertain you? are you looking for a one-night-stand or a long-term relationship? Figure out your goals, and then go for them, and if the people you're talking to don't have the features you're looking for, move on.

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