This chick i have been gaming for a while now, i have already k-closed, f-closed, and everything else a few times but every now and then this chick comes up with lame excuses for not coming out with me. This is definitely not a oneitis because i have f-closed and k-closed and n-closed other chicks while i was still talking to this chick. Anyways i decided to freeze this main chick out and with no contact at all and this has been going on for almost two and a half weeks now. I was wondering how i should go about opening her back up, she lives a few hours away from me so texting or calling would be the best option i guess.

If I were you, I would check out some of the text message topics on this forum. I have used the whole: "STOP!!!" text message routine and I found it works out well.

i thought the point of a freeze out was for the girl to warm up to you to make things normal again..surely contacting her now would ruin your two and a half weeks of frezzing her out

i think the point of my freeze out is to make her realize that she is replaceable and let her know she isnt the only thing or person that is going for me in my life. maybe im just using the wrong PUA terminology? i fairly new, as you can see i dont post a lot i usely just cruise around the forum and read stuff and soak in knowledge.

I would just text her one night, out of the blue, and ask if she was out having fun on the town or not. If NO, "Too bad, we are all are having a great time. Maybe next time." If Yes, wait a couple hours, then text back "Ha ha great! Oh man this party is great" or something to that effect.

Ive gotten plenty of ex girlfriends to start things up again by doing this.. making contact, but being rather vague and not actually following up on it, just let them know you are out there and having lots and lots of fun. The point is to get them thinking about all that fun, and about you.

funny thing is last time i saw her, i asked her how the club scene was where she lived and she was like "its alright, im going out with coworkers, but its not really my scene." she seems to be not having fun. yea next time im out in the club im going to call her and hopefully shes at home so i can start a conversation and the be like "i cant hear you too well the music is too loud, let me call you later." or something like that.

one good thing about it is that she is on my facebook so she can see the pics from parties i go to. i just went to a big party last weekend and one of my friends took a bunch a pics of me having a good time and with other girls, so im waiting for him to post those up too.

My plan worked. well actually i used the blank text game on Saturday, even though she didnt reply it go her thinking about me. this girl writes on my facebook wall twice today, but i havent replied yet. anyways she is coming into town soon so you know what that means .

I say let her go, BUT if you must contact her, call her and keep it funny, tell her you know how much she must be missing you so you called to put her out of her misery. I for real say let her go tho, you already f closed so find a new number 1

man use the "bro you will never guess what just happened" text and then when she respownds use the wft are you talking about cf kinda deal works every time

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