| For the past month and a half now, I have been going to this Hooka Lounge that is located right next to a “Soup Or Salad” Restaurant, a mall, a hot wings place, and a pool hall. I figured that this would be a good location because of all the nearby venues to go check out on insta dates in the future.
The Hooka Lounge is now my base, where I feel comfortable, I know all the regulars now, and I am friends with most of them too and we hang out outside of the Lounge.
At first my goal was to just become so sooo comfortable in the place that I would just exude confidence. So I eventually got there, to my own little place of comfort.
Two weeks ago I took it to a whole new level, I learned the cube routine, the rings, and a lot of disqualification, Plus I had just started to try and integrate Kino into the mix. But I still had no good way of transitioning or storytelling, or even opening/approaches. I was constantly relying on my newfound friends to open and bring girls over, then I would start to own the interactions and do all the routines and negs necessary. I was building attraction in every girl I met and in myself. Soon I started to feel more confident in other social situations.
So one night, about a week ago, I decided, in order to improve my game I needed to open, open, open. But once again my friends opened for me, and invited the girls to sit with us. This time the girls were super hot, amazingly hot( and I say this only because the girls who normally come in are of average beauty compared to these two HB 9‘s). My other friends got called away so I was just there with one other friend, he decided to go sit too close to soon, next to the more attractive of the two.
Immediately the girl turned her back towards him and grabbed her friends hand, and intertwined her hand in her friends. The girls then went on to make my friend think they were lesbians. So he gave up and told them he was leaving and “ it was nice to meet you”, to the girls and then, to me, and then walked away. At that point I was completely by myself.
This was the first time I have ever been in a situation where I was confident and alone with girls of that quality. I proceeded to go into an opener because I felt I had to introduce plainly myself because, up until that point they had only been introduced to my friends. So I asked them Cajun’s “mustache opener” but I changed it to a “goatee” opener, because I sort of have a goatee.
I said: “hey what do you guys think about goatees”
Girl 1: uh I don’t know, they look okay but it depends.
Me: “No(jokingly) I mean on guys though(laughing it off)
Girl: laughing, I don’t like them when they are shaped like a trianlge pointing down.
ME: oh, like Howie Mandel on Deal or No Deal, so if you see a guy with a downward triangle like Howie Mandel you’d be like “No Deal”, and then another guy would randomly walk by and happen to have a trianlge up pointing goatee, would you be like “Deal!”(Thumbs-up-Gesture)
Girls 1&2: both laughing
Girl 1: I actually just shaved, how do I look?
(I treated this is a shit test she did to see how I would respond)
ME: You know what, I wasn’t going to say anything, but,
actually that shit is still pretty gritty,(coming off funny, and then moving on to an advice giving state) here’s what you do, you go to Walgreens, go to cosmetics, and get this stuff called bleach. No one will ever know it’s there(Extremely jokingly)
Girls1&2: Laughing hysterically
Basically little stuff like this was going on, and a lot of push pull from my end made the night very memorable for them and me. I cant post all of it word for word because it would be to long. For the most part I was very shocked how quickly I got them to like me, and how much fun it was to reverse their interview questions on me. Later on through the night they both told me how they were really not lesbians. They both opened up a lot. I even got them to both kiss me. I did it with asking what they thought about my cologne, they smelled my wrists and then I moved them over to my neck, at the moment they were close to my chin I would turn it and give them a peck. I should have said something like “ that’s all you get…. For now(seductively teasing)”
I’ve never gotten as far as I had gotten that night, so I didn’t know how to escalate it even further, and nothing further than that happened. I didn’t even get their numbers. I just kept talking and eventually they said they had to leave, and both gave me really strong and grippy handshakes, then smiled as they walked away.
Regulars inside the Hooka Lounge looked at me all amazed at what just happened. I was too.
So next week came and then the next week and then I kept freaking out that I would not be able to reproduce those results, and have been fucked up inner game/mentally ever since. Its no surprise that I haven’t been able to reproduce them. I just went the other night, and only talked to guys, I was completely nervous, and out of it. I’ve lost my steam.
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. If you put too much focus on having to pick up, you will get nervous and lose your game. Just be social.