Hey guys, i'm not American or anything so if i make typos or type bad English then i'm sorry.
Six weeks ago i opened a set with a girl, KissClosed her the same day and basicly that started this (Sort of) LTR.
I'm 17 years old by the way.
i disaperred for 2 days then she sent a text message and i called her later, and so on and so on so we met a couple times afterwards and kept talking on the phone every few days for like 40-60 minutes. It helped to build comfort and other then that it was fun
The thing is we haven't met in like 3 weeks, in one i was on a trip, on another one i talked with her and she said she would come, the day before the date she didn't answer 2 of my calls and my SMS that said "I need to know about tomorrow, call me back when u have a chance".
she SMSed me the day after that she is sorry and she's going on a trip for one day and she forgot about it.
I didn't do a scene, and just went on like nothing happend.
Usually i was the one to call, and when i pulled back she would break it with an SMS conversation which i was the one to finish first.
Last week i sent her an SMS and she opened a bit more then usuall and said she misses me
I called her on Friday to set a date on Sunday and she was in favour.
Saturday i called again, she said she had a fight with her parents, and she dosen't know about if i could and she would call me back.
She didn't.
I called before i went to sleep which was 5 hours later, and she replied with an SMS saying she is having a conversation with her parents and she can't talk.
Fine, so i called here again sunday evening, she didn't answer.
The day after she sent an SMS saying "I'm sorry and i'm a shit person (in Hebrew it sounds more reasonable), happy new year." (in Israel it's a new year).
I replied with "Happy new year" without any smilies or anything.
Called her next day (Tuesday), she didn't answer and she didn't call back.
I also sent a message to check if she's on the ICQ and she didn't answer.
Since then i decided to pull back and disappear for like 4 days or something and then call or something, or see if she's doing it.
Worth mentioning: she never initiated a call, only if i called and she coulden't talk or something then she would come back later, but everytime i pulled back from her she would sent an SMS.

My questions are am i doing something wrong that i'm missing?
How comes she fights with her parents and then Disappears on me?
Am i doing right Disapearing on her after she does that on me? Or should i just try calling more and see what's going on with her?

Now before u jump to ask me if i rly want her, then i don't know but i still want to experience having a GF.

Thats a complicated situation, and i'm not sure why you call it an LTR. Sounds more like LJBF to me. you keep chasing her, but is she really giving you IOI's? maybe you need to start back at the beginning and start building attraction.

Also, her phone service plan might be the reason she is being flaky and fighting with her parents. Maybe her phone bill is too high, her parents are giving her heat for it, and she doesn't want to tell you.

No it's not a LJBF because when we meet, we make out and kiss and stuff.
She got into a fight with her parents because they found out she was smoking.
I don't know if i'm chasing her, i'm doing alot of Push & Pull.
And if you ask about IOI'S well, she gave them when we were talking on the phone saying that she wants to visit me and stuff.
She is acting a bit strange, screening my calls then SMSing that she's sorry and then not answering another call.
I think i'll just call tomorrow, get together to give her the attraction boost that she havn't recived in so long.


Edit:
I called about 1/2 an hour ago and she didn't answer.
Later on i sent an SMS "Are you alive" and she didn't answer that one either.
My guess is that she's dead but if she really dosent call me back today then it's obvious that i'm out of option and i should just swear a little and move on.

Edit 2:
Well it's getting intresting.
After telling her she sucks and stuff on an SMS she called and explained that she is so sorry and she did bad not answering me and it's not only me she didn't answer to and she is confused and she dosen't know what she wants bla bla bla bla...
Well i took advantage of it to set some boundaries and got her back telling her some red lines if she wants to keep the relationship (like not disapearing for one week because she is confused or something, and other things that disturbed me).
Well that was unexpected, never thought that telling her she sucks would help.
Another thing:
She mentioned that i have surprised her after the day that i KCed her (the day we met) that i wanted to keep in contact with her. She was scared that i was going to forget all about her and never call back, so i guess it is something good
So we're back to normal (I think) but i still want to hear your opinions.

IMO it sounds like she is seeing someone else. Been there done that man. You went out like one time....How does that make her your girlfriend and why would you want a girl that you went out with like once to be your girlfriend?

Quit calling soo much. If she doesn't call back then you need to do something productive. Work out, do homework, get a job, game on OTHER girls, etc...................

You have one-itus. Don't focus on her if she doesn't focus on you. You are 17. If a girl didn't call me back right away "within reason" when we were "boyfriend girlfriend" guess what.....I dropped em unless they had a valid reason. Did I get mad? Sometimes....but not unless I really liked the girl a lot. Did I get too mad a couple times....Yup. I advise against seriously dating anybody when your 17. I did it in High School and ruined like a million chances for what would turn out to be much much better all the way around girls.

My freshman year of college I was single. Life was good.

Well first, i got an update.
Today she told me it's over for real this time, and i said fine.
She said it on an SMS which was a longer version of "it's over, i'm sorry i didn't answer your calls, you are cute and you deserve an amazing girl which would treat you better".
I left with a good feeling afterwards.
Now i want to explain the situation:
I met her three times, and i've known her for 7 weeks.
We coulden't meet more because of many reasons ( i was ill for a week, i was away in a trip etc...)
When i met her we were kissing straight away, and she mentioned the term boyfriend couple of times but i didn't use the term girlfriend on her.
I know she was intrested because for the first 6 weeks she kept sending me messages and calling and ammm... meeting me and kissing me i think?
And about seeing someone else? you know what you didn't hit too far of the target. When she called me she said that she got turned on by some guy who is like 10 fucking years older then her before she met me, and that guy dosen't give a flying fuck about her and he left the country a few weeks ago(i know it's true BTW so don't bother).
How do i analyse it? After not meeting me for long she got confused and fucked up with her emotional complications and the attraction that she had for me faded away in that time.


I'm that one day i'll have a way better girl and i'll look back and say "WTF, why did i meet this girl? i deserve much better"

Exactly. Don't focus on one chick until you are ready.

I am under 30. I am divorced already. Sucked for me honestly because I loved my wife more than anything. She just didn't love me the same way. I was heartbroken honestly. But I went out and got back to my PUA self. It took me almost a year. Then one day I woke up and smelled the coffee. My wife didn't love me anymore because I wasn't the badass confident guy I used to be. I was complacent.

Well, to make a long story short not 15 mins ago a 8.5 HB just called and is horny. And she wants me to take care of her. And she wants me to take of her 8ish friend. So I have a threesome lined up if I want it. But here is the kicker. The ex has been asking what I have been doing and if I want to hang out. And she has been bugging me for weeks. Life is good. I could go bang my ex-wife or have a threesome. Choices Choices Choices

The ex is a 9+ for those who are wondering. Tits I paid for , super nice ass, beautiful smile, and absolutely gorgeous blue eyes. You know those eastern euro bright blue eyes? Yeah those.

What's the lesson. Don't get one-itus. Don't get complacent. Don't freak out and be needy. Do be confident and funny. Do all those things and shower and you will have a ton of numbers in your phone

Guys guys guys, relax!
I don't have one-itus!
Is it really so weird that after i kiss a girl i keep meeting her and not looking for other girls the next day?
I'm already over it, it dosen't bother me much.