Hey fellas - well my subject title pretty much says it all. My GF is bi and so is her friend. They've kissed b4 and we all know they want to esalate it higher. The thing is my GF and I both wanna get her into bed for a 3 some. How would I go about getting the other girls attraction and get her to want me. Should my girl tell her it's ok for her to sleep with me too because I think that is the other girl's barrier right their (their co-workers).

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Basics:

The most important thing is that you and your girl both know what you want. Have a good long talk so you both know how you feel about this. Is she worried about anything? How does she want this to happen? I there anything she doesn't want you to do with the other girl (like kissing), or anything she really WANTS to do in a threesome as it would really turn her on? etc etc...
Then I suggest your girlfriend first of all asks the other girl what she thinks about threesomes in general.. your girlfriend should concentrate on dropping hints about a threesome to the other girl... "I have this fantasy... wouldn't it be really hot... etc etc". Make it HER fantasy as well. That way, when it starts happening she will be totally wrapped up in her own experience ("I can't believe they're both touching me.. mm, it feels so good" etc). This is MUCH more important than her having a high attraction to you...

A few pointers:

In my experience (not that I'm an expert, but I HAVE had 3 threesomes) it's more important to put the idea of a threesome in the other girls head than it is to build individual attraction... And when it's showtime comfort is very important, attraction is somewhat secondary (compared to a "normal" one-on-one seduction).

Seduction:

After you're sure you've cleared the air and put the fantasy firmly in the other girls head, just invite her over for dinner and a movie or something... drink some wine or something (just a glass or two though) to loosen up a bit... then proceed with seduction as usual (flirting, kino, light kisses etc). Just remember that this is about the other girl... YOU two want the threesome, so YOU have to combine forces and seduce her. If you manage to get her horny enough I'm sure she'll agree to it.. and by then it will also be pretty obvious that your girlfriend doesn't mind her touching you/you touching her Getting touched/kissed from two persons at once is an incredible turnon in and by itself.. If you need help getting started, try using the "dual induction massage" routine, which you can find here at the forum..

Good luck! I hope you get your threesome and that it's a good one! A really good threesome is THE SHIT! Unfortunately, a bad one can be a relationship killer.. so be careful and TALK about your feelings before and after... and (IMPORTANT!) be sure that your girlfriend knows that it's okey to say stop at any time if she should feel uncomfortable.

First off: You are gonna have two girls at the same time. I officially hate you!

So, great man! Im impressed, if you pull this off I will electronically bow before you! Have you considered Styles double induced massage?
Otherwise I would game her and build jealousy with your GF to make her want you more. Have a cosy night at home, rent a movie, let your gf sit in the middle and kino escalate. Once the other girl is aroused you start kissing your GF while she kinos the other one. Let her lead you into the kino and the other girl will have to accept that if something is gonna happen, you are part of it too. If she is aroused enough she will go for it.

I have to stop writing, Im getting a boner...

Love

Ezo

And good Luck MAN!!!!!

whoa - thanks for the responses guys - i have read up about styles induction massage and that was going to be my first plan. but yea, yall's ideas are great and right now im working on building comfort with the other girl. If anything happens I will... WILL! Post exactly what I did to make it work and if it doesnt work - i will post about the failure and see if we can diagnose for future ventures!


-Lex

Whoa whoa whoa! Control your hormones!

Who's in charge? You or your penis?

Anyway, I'm very curious about that Style book. I even tried to get it on ebay. Oh well, better days. Anyway, I wanna learn how to threesome. How do you do it with two girls you don't even know and make them want to?

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Just be careful about building too much comfort without any attraction. Some attraction is needed. Fantasies+comfort+attraction=Sexy threesome times You want her to feel that you're a attractive guy who wants her to join in a sexy fantasy, but you don't want her or you gf to believe you like her better than your gf. From my experience, jealousy can totally bust the mood of a threesome.. At least if it's your girlfriend feeling jealous.. But yeah.. Go for it! And post results

Thanks -
There isnt much of a problem with attraction - my only problem is that after, I dont want her to think that theres anything more to it than that. my gf and her work together... oh yea and the other girl has been in a MFF 3some b4...
Gentlemen... This saturday is the night I will be working my game for this 3some. give me last minute advice and wish me luck. I will be giving feedback on the results - Sunday

-Lex

all you gota do is ask,

i did it when i had an ex up my house and her friend, had a 3some then chucked her out cause my mam was going to be home in like half hour.

i was 17 then (happened last year)

The Deed has been done! It was easier than I thought because my gf and her already "wanted" each other.
After a late night of drinking at our friend's house we all deceided to stay the night at his place. With people all over the place (sofas, floor, patio chairs, etc) my gf and I got a bedroom to ourselves because aside from the owner of the house, we were the only other couple there - everyone else is single. We'll being drunk and wired from redbulls myself, my gf and the other girl (lets call her "Legs") were chatting in the bedroom so I pulled out the digi camera. Snap shot here snap shot there I playfully told them to kiss each other... they did... i called them out saying it was weak and they said "oh, you just wanna see us get all horny and shit" and i said "no balls" and i moved in closer... they started to make out and i slowly moved in and started kissing my gf on the neck and at the same time grabbed her hand and placed it on top of Leg's hand and i started rubbing my hand on top of both of their hands.... after a minute or so i was going back and forth making out with both of the girls while we "molested" each other and stripped... the rest is to your imagination but lets just say i made sure that the pleasure was all theirs...
success, a ruined bed frame, and a sore body....

-Lex

2 days after and things seem to be normal... b/t my gf and I it seems like it was a normal thing... "Legs" on the other hand is starting to converse with me more and more... how do i lay it down that other than for 3somes, our relationship needs to stay the way it was before - without causing problems

-Lex

Great man!!!! Congratulations!!!!!!

Don't worry about it.. if she wanna talk, just talk. If you want to have her around (for threesomes or whatever) you need to be able to have conversations with her. If you feel that she's out of line (for example if she says "dump your girlfriend and be with me") set her straight ("I love my girl friend and won't leave her").. but other than that just treat her like any friend. Don't treat her like a threat. How is everything working out now? You haven't posted for a while.

Oh boy, I am watching this thread with great interest...one of my goals is to snag two ladies for a threesome.

Gruuve

I have a few of my own. My sticking point is, we go out and in no time women are commenting on how hot my wife is. I am thinking instant DHV for me.

Like last night. So we start hanging out with a set at the bar, I start gaming a little. Maybe it is in my head but I quickly get the impression these girls think I am some sort of asshole since I am gaming with my wife right there. So She or I throw out how she is bi. Usually that works great but by then all attention goes to her. Last night she made out with 2 seriously hot chicks at the bar right next to me. She tried to get me involved and one gave a story about having a BF etc. like they didn't want to look slutty WTF I guess kissing a girl is cool now and non-slutty. This has happened plenty of times.

One girl we did end up taking back a few months ago and had a quite a few escapades with her. It was fun but it started the same, she was into my wife and we all ended up fucking. Which is fine with me. Should I just have no game and let my wife run the show? I haven't found much info on this in the communities. This thread is good...