This is the extremely manipulitive types of things i would use to lets say a former girlfriend or a queen bee.

I've read most of these post and just out of complete curiosity this is as normal as day and night. Women are emotional creatures all hollywood is describing how natrual human beings fall in love. If some of the men on here don't want to deal with "crazy" women then they should isolate themseleves from all women.

Bump.

I've noticed that you can also accomplish this by constantly generating emotional spikes across the entire spectrum (without following Hollywood's steps). I accidentally achieved this with this ridiculously hot, elite popular girl (HB 9.5 or some shit) at school, and was able to get her emotionally attached to me.

It's definitely some weird shit, but we'll see how it plays out.

It's as if the girl is constantly simultaneously experiencing feelings of love and hate towards you, and has absolutely no control.

mrhollywood.. i found your comment intresting. how is it like night and day? and are you saying that all women are crazy?? sounds like you have personal experience...

Other Moderators, if you're reading this, as an aside, this is the one of the biggest reasons I was arguing to make this site for 18 yr olds and over only. Analogous to forbidden patterns, Ross Jeffries said it best: "It's like giving dynamite to children." I kinda think that everyone, regardless of the hobby or profession they're involved in, has a responsibility to protect children. I may have only been 14 or so when I started studying pickup, but back then forbidden darker shit wasn't as available as it is today.

Otherwise, speaking to the 18 and over crew, I think this a very good discussion, and an even better observational analysis. I think women should be educated on this kind of stuff early on so they can learn to avoid harmful relationships later on.

girls do this stuff all the time... so why is it evil? its their own game...

all my ex-gf's tried to cut out my friends/family from my life for example. girls are manipulative, with their dirty little games...

if its evil , then girls are evil!

just play along with their game... its great if you know it

If you need to get a girl to be obsessed with you, you have some serious issues. Narcissism comes to mind. Its typically an onset from not being loved enough as a child.

Why would you even want your wife or girlfriend obsessed with you? That shit is creepy. Its not healthy to be obsessed with a girl either, or anyone or that matter.

If you think this is a good idea, seek therapy. Your symptoms probably include excessive self-involvement and lack of empathy. That's hitler nazi shit.

I'm all for hitting on chicks and getting laid, but seriously... sick.

Good post though as far as stimulating some conversation, takes me back to my abnormal psychology summer school class... laid the hotest chick in there! lol

Charm works better than manipulation. All girls want is smile and to feel good inside. Heroin and crystal meth are bad. (Some of you are fuckd in the hed! 4real)

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How can I reverse this? I think this guy is doing it to my friend and she already has enough issues. The guy is married and she found out, called me up crying. I F closed her but then she went back to him after a week or so. She said it hurts more being without him than what he did, and that he needs her. WTF. Now she has shut out me and her girl friends. Doesn't return any calls/texts.

Isn't this very similar to the D.E.N.N.I.S. system?
Somebody's got to have watched It's Always Sunny in Philly?

I don't fully agree with this anyway, a man is not a drug, a man changes, and the woman changes after time. A drug is the same, it's unconditional love with no strings attached!

The first 3 steps sound like being and AFC really, don't you think so guys ?

i like it.

If being a PUA was parrallel to being a Jedi, this is definately the dark side of the force.


That said, I always fancied being a Sithlord.

"7) Start to crowd out other parts of her life
I know this is evil, but this is the way alot of guys do it that get women obsessed with them. They compete with her friends, guy friends, family... they ISOLATE her from the rest of the world. The use of this evil tactic is up to your own discretion and conscience! This is where you become her WORLD! Let her get the impression that you are in demand This increases your perceived value in her eyes."

I just wanted to say that at least for me. This was how it originally was with my current girlfriend, however, her friends began to get aggravated. And now she almost never lets me just isolate her if her friends are around because her friends basically hate her because she i guess would just cut them out of her life and when she was with them always talk about me. So, just wanted to say, use #7 with caution. Because i have absolutely no clue what to do now.

can someone please go into detail about the creating "emotional spikes" thing? what exactly do you mean by that, can you give examples of them when you're talking to a girl please?

and also, what do you mean by "give her drama" and hi's and lows?

and also..this whole routine is basically like bugging/making a girl your daily routine for a couple of weeks, and then just stop doing it and moving away?

i've never tried this but I have noticed people do it on me sometimes, they talk to me almost everyday, which at first might be a little annoying for me depending on who it is, but after a couple of weeks it becomes a habit for me to talk to them and the "annoying" suddenly went away..
this is similar no?

but yeah, can someone please explain emotional spikes to me please! thanks

Maybe we need to write up a whole new facet to the game... Emotional game... or something designed not just to pick up and fuck in 7 hours... but to just shred someone emotionally till they're attached to you.