First off....no close of any kind...my goal was to do a good approach.

DONE.

I was with a co-worker (guy) and was sort of telling him about other guys at work learning this PUA style. I said I'd try it and see what happens. I don't have all the tools/styles down at all...but know of a few starter ideas.

We were in this dead club in Austin tonight...(probaby hopping later tonight but I have to be up at 0400)...3 young ladies walk in...20somethings. I said to my buddy Rick...I'll do this--ask their opinion on male or female stippers...and later if needed...the topic of tatoos or peircings.

I started with the stipper ?s...wow...they said they'd like both. SO...the conversation just flowed from there for about 20 minutes. It was great...had some IOIs from one...touching my shoulder. But later...one said they were all "spoken for". Ahhh...no worries...I wasn't expecting much anyway. I just wanted to try out my new found knowledge on just approaching. Man, I found the hardest part was just starting the whole thing by walking up.

They had to leave anyway...going to see a friend's band play. I had to head back to the hotel anyway since I need to be up in 7hrs.

Point being, I'm excited/encouraged with my minor success. I'm not expecting to run a 99 yard kick return yet.

Congrats, you've just run half the field. Most of the work is simply making the initial approach. Once you get that down the rest is a matter of keeping the right frame.

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cool bro! nice going, hardest step is the first, then it just snowballs.

sounded like you could have gotten further cause you could have used a BF Destroyer on them when they said they were "spoken for" or just completely ignored it and just kept going on with the conversation you were doing.

great job though!

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good job

Thanks guys. I think I need to "condition" more before trying a BF killer. Someone said to me in a different post on a different topic...baby steps.

I'll be back in Austin again this Sat. and will try again.

I gotta try the "isolating" first I think...but not sure what to do from there. I thought about learning some bullshit stuff about palm reading. I'm guessing whether it's accurate or not, she might think it's cool or something.

Great job man! This is what separates the wannabes from the PUA material. You actually went in there prepared to crash and burn until it worked for you! Just remember that strippers get paid to be social...

Thats sweet dude. My first night using the mystery method was somewhat similar. I found out that using the negs on HBs below 8 doesnt work a lot of the time. However, the opinion openers are money in the bank. I was no more successful overall that I usually am but had a higher level of successfull approaches. Im sticking with the rule book until I get it right.

Okay...laying over in Austin, TX again...

No wing tonight

Made 3 approaches with no close...but thats okay, I'm still trying to feel confident in just walking up without the hesitations.

Set 1: Early in the night...HB6 and HB6.5----sisters turns out. HA. I walked in right behind them into one of the bars on "the strip". Noticed foriegn SPAM. Easy one....I said "I noticed you guys have foriegn SPAM...where are you from" and went from there. Neg'd a bit, got some laughs...but just didn't feel a lot of interest. I let it die out and moved on a bit later.

Set 2: Same bar...saw a group of 3 walk in while I was talking to set 1. I found them at the upstairs part. I used the "my friend is planning a bachloret party...girl stippers or guys"...my original target was buried in her phone txting...couldn't get her attention when I felt it was time. As time ticked on...the one I was talking to was actually hotter...HB7.5. She KINO'd first. cool. Grabbed my arm or brushed it a few times. But she ended up ear to ear talking with the one buried in her txting. Obviously they just weren't fully into some guy coming up...no worries. I was in for a bit though.

Set 3: New bar...live band. Two HB7s. Did the same "stipper" thing. Spent most of the night with these two. Had more rapport with one..but we all talked for a good while. I some how (due to my lack of good gaming skills) got off track and started talking about my separation, kids and dogs. ugh. She was divorced and actually older...but totally looked 10yrs younger.

Over all...I'm not too dissapointed. But the abundant availability of hot women tonight...I know there are plenty of kiss and full closes around. But I'm not there yet.

Nice job man, I am in the same boat. I am trying to get comfortable opening day game and sets. One step at a time.

You will be a player before you know it, mark my words.

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Okay...going to be in Santo Domingo tonight for a layover...Thursday the 2nd.

One of my flight attendants says she has friends there that will meet up with us...my crew. Her words also were "...I'll take of you guys" (meaning me and the captain). Okay...sweet. She's cute herself. A bit thick, but well proportioned...has a bf.

We'll see how it goes. I don't have enough posts to get onto the 'field report board' yet...so I'll put it on here.

I probably won't get to post till the next evening when we're in Boston.

Good work, man. I'm at the same stage at the moment. The rush of energy and confidence after talking to some HB's is awesome. The first time is obviously the most difficult but after nailing it (not literally, unfortunately) the confidence just grows and grows!

Keep us posted, man.

That's awesome man, it seems like you're getting a grasp getting used to opening.

You might want to pick a stock opener and use that every time for the next few weeks until you know what all the contingencies are and you can sail through them. After that add a transition into normal conversation.

Best,

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Well...Santo Domingo was a dud. Her friends didn't come out...something about not being a Friday or Saturday.

The other pilot and I still hit the late night "club" at the resort. It's totally dead at this place this night. There were maybe a couple of HB 7s there with their guy. I tried to start convo with the bartender/server, but English was a distant 2nd language. UGH. What a pisser.

Even if there were any HBs there...that damn local "disco" stuff they were playing was so friggin loud...I had tinnitus for the rest of the night. haha.

BUT...I go there 3 more times this month...we'll see what happens.

So....no good stories at all this week. I'm not on the road again at all till Oct. 12th. Then I'll have some "reports"...until then, I'll be 'grazing' on the boards gaining info.

--quick background--

I'm an airline pilot. I don't live in the city I'm based in...so I have to commute to work by flying on a different airline into and out of the city I live in to get to work....

so

After finishing a 4 day trip...I board a flight to head home late Saturday (oct 4th) night. Said hello to the first Flight Attendant (FA) an HB6 at best...didn't meet the 2nd one right away. I was helping a passenger with her bag when the other FA walked up. HB8. I said hi I'm xxxx. We shook hands and she about crushed it. haha. Love a good grip from a girl. I immediately said something about her grip....and said 'do it again'. We shaked again. After release, I made the standard slow "shaking out motion" like my hand was hurt. She giggled a bit.

20mins later...

I'm flirting a tiny bit with an HB6-7 next to me...not super pretty, but awesome body. It was occuping my time. Then out of no where...the HB8 FA was walking up the isle and smacked my seat back and with a smile says 'you asleep yet'? Ah ha....IOI....game on.

As she was walking backwards with the cart for drinks, I of course slightly hit her with a magazine juust above her ass. She was already smiling cause she knew it was coming. Once they were done...I saw her standing in the front galley. I stood up and approached her from the back and poked my fingers into her upper rib cage just under arms...you know...the universal tickelish area. I smiled/laughed and said, 'i bet you weren't expecting THAT one'.

We talked for the next 30 mins or so...I'd stop talking and she'd start it up again. I had to bail out of there after a while cause she still had to take care of the other 70 people onboard. haha.

She stopped by my seat a few times to talk some more. I pulled out my boarding card and said...'before we go, gimme your email address'. As I said that, I noticed she already had a pen in her hand...probably for a few minutes already.

Email close. I didn't ask for a number since I just can't call while I'm home given my current situation....which is still married with seperation imminent.

I'll email her today...she lives in a different city...so, who knows when we'll (if ever) get together.

But...over all, an unexpected success. I was planning on sleeping all the way home...instead, met a girl with pretty blue eyes.