So i've been talkin to this chik for like 4/5 months via txt and online. I finally manage to arrange for us to go out today. I know my first mistake was asking her 2 weeks ago...but i was genuinely busy for those 2 weeks...so i arranged for the first day that i wud be free. Anyhow...i last spoke to her on sunday and gave her a lil reminder and askd where i was gonna pik her up from....she sed she'd let me know 'nearer the time'. that made me think thats time for her to think up an excuse....i even sed ur not gonna let me down are ya....and i quote 'would i ever!!'....so i dropd the final txt today...woohoo its pay day...u gonna gimme ur address to pik u up tnite or wot.... bout 35mins later i get the txt...sorry i know i sed i wud do tnite but i cant....maybe another time....

She keeps saying she likes me but im never sure she means it...coz only after i tell her....wot to do now???

Did you meet her in person or online?

If you met the girl online, even if she likes you alot it can still be a daunting experience for her. Especially when asking for her address to pick her up - this can sometimes scare a girl off as she will be thinking if you know her address and she didnt like you, she has no escape from you (or something along those lines)lol. She may of just got cold feet and thought the opposite (i.e. what if you dont like her as much as she likes you etc).

Arrange another date with her but let her meet you by a location suitable for her (some shops that are local to her, or soemthing that is easy to find and has people around). Be reasurring when you meet her next and let her know she can trust you (in an indirect way though). If that doesnt seem to do the job she may just have cold feet or she could just be a tease as 4/5 months is quite a length of time for a first encounter (not to sound negative).

Let me know how it goes.

we work together...but on different departments. I didnt speak to her for the first year she workd at our work place. Then suddenly i was bored and searched her on facebook and then things just went from there. I dunno if its really worth arranging another meeting. She really doesn't put any effort in. Never txts first, never leaves FB msgs, never evn initiates chat on msn. And i havent been clingy....i always wait a good 5-10mins before speaking on msn and only ever txt 1-2 times a week. Is it better to arrange another meeting or should i see if she crawls bak by not talking to her for like a month or sumthing??? Thanks for the advice lover man!

OK SERIOUS HELP....SHES TRYING TO TALK TO ME ONLINE!! DO I tALK TO HER OR NOT??? SHUD I ASK Y SHE CUDNT MAKE TNITE??