Arrite guys i need some urgent help with something...there is this girl in my school that im really into...back in 9th grade i talked to her all the time we used to be pretty good friends i had her number and everything...over the years (summer of 9th grade-12th grade) ive lost contact with her...i dont have her number anymore and i dont even talk to her...shes in my lunch period and i really wanna start talking to her again and maybe date her w/e...shes always wid her 2 friends that ive never really known but have spoken to briefly...so anyway i need some tip, openers, etc. on talking to this girl again...im to shy to just randomly go up to her and i cnt think of anything to talk about...so PLEASE GUYS HELP ME OUT

i'm no pro, and nothing anyone tells you will work unless you make it your own words. Except if you ask for piggy back rides.. :3 i love that shit.

Anyway, the first thing to do is sit down with the three of them, and start talking to her friends. Say something interesting, just one thing is enough cause girls in highschool know so much shit.
Things to say to your sweetheart. when she talks, just joke about stuff, and try to make more of a group effort of achieving a fun conversation, all the while giving her little to no attention. Just pop in on her every often, and tease her with, Miss me much haha..

Your enemy is time and personal shit. You want to talk to her, you like here.. blah blah. bits and pieces are the best. your in-out and she had a smile/laugh to go with seeing your face. few weeks and she'll be in the ball park for a lil time to catch up

Hey Flexx6!

Good advice Milinko

this my suggestions

I think we've all been in the kinda situation before. Thas girl in school that we used to know. What is fo sure is that if you don't talk to her, you'll never get anywhere!
So keep in mind that you have to go talk to her. or else... Nothing ("nothing" is bad) If u want something (start talking to her again and maybe date her w/e) u HAVE TO GO TALK TO HER

Now, the problem isn't so much what u gots to do, but how u gonna do it!
U gotta do it without showing interest or else she might feel like you're just rebuilding the bridges for sex or whatever.

Today I started talking to this girl I met at a theater auditions. I hadn't talked to her for about a month, but today I saw her and asked "Hey, u that girl from the auditions?" I didn't have a smile on my face until she said yes, cause I wasn't interested in picking up a chick, i just wanted to talk to that girl from from the auditions. had she said "No" I would have said "Ok" & moved on, no hard feelings.


I don't know ur exact situation but you can try something like:
"hey insert girl name, do you remember me?"
or
open her like any other girl, and then start talking about "hey do u remember when..." or "I remember back in 8th grade when we used to..." thus creating an instant rapport!
or
start talking to one of her friends (girl #2), then when you cross eachother and (girl #2) is with insert girl name, say Hey to (girl #2), have a 10 second conversation and then jump onto insert girl name

*insert girl name always being you target;
girl #2 alaways being her friend


When it comes to things to say, i always can check "Openers, Storytelling and Conversational Skills"

hey guys thanks alot...im deff going to take into consideration what u guys told me : )

really, just dont try.. do what we said and dont try lol.. you'll find when you dont try at first and they get to know you. when you do try it really shines