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1) inner game. what the hell is that? is that like your frame of mind? i read somewhere that if your inner game is tight then your outer game will follow suit. comments? how do i work on my inner game?
Inner game is making yourself congruent with what you are presenting on the outside. Confidence, vocal tone, body language, smile, "I am the prize" attitude. Internalizing all of the traits that make one alpha:
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2) peacocking. im a rocker. everyone here wears like button up shirts/golf shirts along with jeans and brogues etc. often the shirts are those soft pastel colours.
i generally wear black t-shirts (nothing hectic like cradle of filth etc btw, more like metallica, acdc, led zep and a few hardcore bands but no freaky designs) and jeans and normal sneakers. would this be considered peacocking? ...bearing in mind that there arent any dress codes for the places i frequent, its just guys dressing up so they can look smart.
also, i wear a studded wristband. flat pyramid studs, like the types you get on belts. it suits my style but is it maybe a bit much?
Peacocking is making yourself stand out from the crowd, in a good way. Wearing a metal T-shirt isn't really Peacocking and doesn't do much to raise your value. The idea behind Peacocking is you gain attention and women see you confident enough to wear really flamboyant or impractical attire. A T-shirt doesn't really fit the bill. The wrist band is a good start. I would get a really specialized one so women will ask you questions about it (conversational piece).
It sounds like you are dressing down, which is the complete opposite to peacocking. Women spend a lot of time on their looks and they respond to men who look like they have as well. Grooming and style are more important than genetics.
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