I have started to notice the signals coming from girls across the room but I must say that I do not understand them... Not always anyway.

So basically the proximity alert is when a girl occupies the space right behind or close to you without her actually having any business being there. And she wants you to open her? Did I get that right?

What about the other signals like eye contact, looks etc?

Last night I got major looks from a girl first when me and my wing were observing the dancefloor trying to hand out the prize of AFC of the day. A HB8 was eyeing me and later broke off the dancefloor with her friend, dancing erotically past us and stopped to observe the dancefloor some meter away. I mean, really, look at me dancing. The music was ridiculusly loud and she kept looking back over her shoulder at me. I did not want to open so I negged her but looking disapprovingly at her.
Just to do the test me and my wing went outside to get some air, still she was in my sight and kept looking back every minute or something. Then, she and her friend came out too and I just tried opening and was completely ignored. Ok it was a moving set but with all those IOIs????
What was going on? What did I miss?

Ezo

Ezo,

Let's say you all of the sudden realize a group of girls has just come within about 5 feet of you. Many times women will subconciously get closer to you. It's likely that they will come close to you and will not be facing you.

I agree that multiple looks and smiles in your direction in my opinion are great invitations to go open them up. The girl you mentioned above was within eye contact and close to you a few times. I would have opened her.

I also find that sometimes when who I notice are giving me glances will find a way to walk by me in a venue as well. This could also be an approach invitation.

You'll get em next time! I know you will.

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Thanks man! The way I solved the problem this time (although I never got the chance to open them) was to pawn a set standing close to them. It had an AMOG in it but that was ok, I just had to blow him out. But one of the girls in that set was really into magic so I ended up sarging that set instead. Unfortunately their english was not so good so when I went into A3 I lost their attention.