Ok next stage of the saga. I just want to remind all the dudes reading this that I am by no means a PUA yet, but I am training myself so the methods used here are things that work for me so please don't follow this step by step because they may or may not work for you, if they do work well I'm glad I was able to help. If they don't work then take advice from guys that are experienced because there are plenty of guys that use this site who are.

OK so we're on day 8 of getting over the one-itis girl and while I still think

about her, I definantly don't think about her in a romantic way at all.

So today I caught the bus into the city hoping to see a girl I could chat up on

the bus. There wasn't anything even half decent so I just ignored my new

sarging addiction and listened to my ipod on the way in.

I met up with my friend and her kid as I had made an appointment to get

my eyebrow and lip pierced. So we hung out for an hour while waiting for

my appointment, I did see some girls who were worth sarging but didn't

go in because I don't think it's appropriate to blantantly hit on girls while

i'm in the company of my friends kid. I went to the piercing place and got

my new peacocking accessory. I don't want to sound like a pussy but fuck

me did it hurt or what, I was just about to get my lip done but I pussed

out of that at the last minute. The dude was about to do it but I kept

flinching and hence wussed out.

So afterwards we went and had a cup of coffee with a friend and he remarked "hell dude, it looks good, you might get laid!".

I walked back to the bus stop where I was waiting for the bus when these

two girls the target HB 7 and the other HB 5, they were holding a travel

pamphlet about the USA& Canadia (sorry canadian dudes but I just love

that joke!), I started with the opener "Are you guys thinking about going to america"

HB 5: Yeah I want to go there on exchange

me: Oh cool you're gonna love it, I used to live there it's a great place.

HB 5: Oh yeah where did u live?

me: I used to live in NYC

HB 5: Oh really? which part

me: brooklyn!

HB 5: Isn't that a really dangerous part of NY?

me: no not really it's like any place you've just got to stay out of trouble.

me: so are you going there on university exchange or school exchange?

HB 5: University!

I asked that question to make sure they were of a decent age, even at 19 I still think that it's too young for me, not because I don't think I can't get them into bed, I just prefer a more mature woman in both body and mind.

We kept talking shit for a few minutes until the bus arrived I found out what university they go to and it's not my one. When the bus arrived I left the next move upto them, remembering that you have to risking loosing the girl to keep them interested.

As it turns out they didn't come and sit next to, they probably thought I was too old or maybe they just wanted to talk to eachother on the way home. I don't really care what the reason was coz I'm still building my confidence and it was simply the next step.

I thought about the mistakes I could've made, not maintaining good eye contact with my targets, I also snuck in a few peeks at their boobs which I'm sure they noticed. Which i think is funny coz one of my targets that i was talking to last week had such great boobs and was showing them off and I didn't sneak a peek, not even once while she wasn't looking.

So sorry guys for the long read and not even the happiest ending, I didn't even get their names, but the point is that I realised the mistakes I made and I know not to do them the next time I sarge a target, or the time after that.

So as you can see I still haven't number closed with any of my targets, but I don't need to at this stage. I'll worry about it when I get upto it.

My saying- We all have good days and bad, make your mistakes and learn from them for the next time.

I apologise if this is anyone elses saying so let me know if it is and I'll quote you the next time I use it

Peace Out

Nutriman

So thanks to everyone who stuck around and watched how the story unfolded and it is unfolding well.

Tonight I went out to a bar where lots of college students go in the city.
I was driving so no drinking, it was yet another challenge i'd set for myself on the art of approaching.

Me and my friend were sitting around and nothing much was happening, I felt intimidated because alot of the crowd was 18-20 yr olds and me being 25 it made me feel a bit uncomfortable.

I was sitting on a stone bench and basically waiting for good looking girls to come and sit next to me before chatting to them, not very confident but it was working and before I knew it I'd struck up conversation with a few 8's and 9's.

I saw some people that I go to college with and hung around them for a
bit, before meeting up with a friend of the friend that came with me.

These two guys had two girls with them both i'd say 7 (I think they were
on a double date). One of them my mate liked (blonde) and the other one

I think no one knew her (brunette). I got to talking with the brunette and
we had a pretty good conversation, but it was mostly small talk but I

could tell she was into me. We talked outside for a bit before I said "hey
i've really got to go, can i give you a call sometime?" she said "sure i'll

give you my number" it was that easy. All I had done was built on what i'd
learnt from the previous weeks cold day sarging and remembered the

basics of what i'd learnt from reading other posts and parts of some books.

So she's 7 years younger than me, she's pretty, HB7 and a really nice chick too, and i've got her number.

I did kinda feel bad about getting that dude's date though but fuck it who cares!

So finally after 10 days of practising by myself and learning from you guys etc, i've got my first number close since joining the community.

The rest of the saga will continue over the coming weeks as it happens live on channel nutriman

peace out
nutriman

hey well i haven't posted in about a week, and there's no good reason for it. I haven't been going for sarge and keeping up to the challenges i set for myself of going and striking up random conversations with girls.

However I'm trying to keep up appearances with those girls that i striked up conversation with and have also become friends with them which is nice, but I'm definantly not in the "let's just be friends zone" at all.

I went on a little mini date with that older girl that I knew through a friend last tuesday, it was nice, I got a kiss close well...... many kiss closes but no sex, but prospects on that front are viable.

The one that i picked up at that uni bar, seems viable but I don't think she's all that into me, she probably wanted to hook up the night that i met her but i just got her number and left the bar. I'll know not to do that again coz she was pretty cute and i should've hooked up with her.

I saw and spoke briefly with that blondie from my math class, fuck was i stupid today? To set the background for my readers, this girl has really nice breasts and she likes to show them off! All the short while that i spoke with her I couldn't stop looking at her boobs, and when I was saying goodbye she was bending over to get her books I turned and tried to make direct eye contact to say goodbye. Fuck! her face was right infront of her boobs as she looked up, I was so embaressed, she had to have known that I took a peak.

But what does she expect? She's got nice boobs, she knows it and she flaunts it! Ofcourse guys are gonna try a sneaky peak right?

Anyway before I left she asked me if I was gonna be in class tomorrow and I don't know if I should take this as an IOI or is she just being friendly? I think it's a pretty 50/50 situation but we'll see what happens.

Peace out
Nutriman