I was wondering if someone could give me a good outline with an example of each stage, not so i can copy it but i feel im lacking in ssome forms of my game and i learn best from examples or in person... so if i got a good outline then some good examples i can build from that and help base myself more on natural game...... so far heres my structure.

1. approach/neg
2.constraint
3.DHV/Comfort
4.push/pull
5.k Close

if theres anyhting im forgettting let me know, please give me some structured examples if you can. and if my order is screwed up please re-arrange it.

Well in step 4 (what you call push - pull) you are going to have to convey genuine interest in the girl. You are doing more pulling than pushing at this point because she isn't going to kiss you if she doesn't think you like her.

you mean like be like.....pull- "you know i really think that is soo awsome that you can cook all those things" push- "but you know i dont want you to make me fat so i dont think we would work out"