How do you play hard to get..when she isn't trying to get u



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 30, 2008 4:57 pm 
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How do you play hard to get..when she isn't trying to "get" you?

There's this girl I like, but it's nearly impossible to play hard to get/disinterested/un-caring about her looks, when she isn't trying to get me..or she herself is playing hard to get?

What can I do?

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PostPosted: Tue Sep 30, 2008 9:02 pm 
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Please, I really need to know.

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haha that question made me laugh. if you're getting the "play hard to get / show no interest " idea from the mystery method. you could try doing what mystery does, win over her friends and hope she gains interest in you. other than that.. you know how you look for ioi's from girls? maybe the only reason she hasnt shown any is because she hasnt gotten any from you. i say just hint that you're interested in her. good luck man.


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Don't play hard to get. That's retarded. Kinda.

How've you been gaming her so far?


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Its not so much hard to get as it is not needyness. So show her that you are having a good time whether or not she is there. Someone once said: Hey baby, if you wanna be with me fine, if not just get out of the way, theres a lovely young woman right behind you waiting for you to leave. Do not tell her this, just make it your reality. This has to be your attitude.
You need to build attraction while you do this by flipping the attraction switches.


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Just actually don't need her go out with friends, get with other girls etc


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you feel your work isnt working is what your saying and it is aggravating, well first off take a look at her personality, lifestyle and the boyfriend she has....some girls with in certain lifestyles arent as flirting and spontaneous as others like this one she is the quiet type talks to her friends, but never really makes a big deal like all the other girls to make herself known.......plus the fact she has a boyfriend im sure she is content right now...
...id back away for awhile until you get more familiar with parts of the game, but still talk to her just think of the ways you have been talking to her and try to re-call the reaactions she has given you good, bad, happy, mad, angry??.. and then try and work and change your conversation base on her mood...

..say when you talk to her you talk about the day well if you talk about the day every day and it isnt exactly getting a rise out of her id change the subject to what you are going to ttalk abou tand try to reframe from talking about your day unless thats the only thing you can think of

really to get good at conversations and getting a feel for what kinds of communication works with woman it takes time..

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Hey baby, if you wanna be with me fine, if not just get out of the way, theres a lovely young woman right behind you waiting for you to leave. Do not tell her this, just make it your reality. This has to be your attitude.
That is a great quote. Thanks for sharing that.

Whoever said that its not about playing hard to get, its about not showing neediness, that sounds much easier, haha. I'll definitely try that.

And mPUA...we'll talk later.

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Its the cat-string thing.
If you make yourself too available, she might loose interest.
You gotta catch her attention though. Or else, she will not notice you at all.


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