ok so here is the deal.i recently tried Style's technique of giving a girl the necklace i was wearing and saying 'i want that back next time i see you'. so i texted her and said ' so when am i getting my necklace back' she replied with 'silly way to ask someone out. to regain some control i replied with 'wow who said i was asking you out.lol, your a cocky one!'so now im a bit of a rut.of course i wanna ask her out just not sure quite how to do it now.any ideas anyone please?

I wouldnt ask her I would tell her you have some free time on a certain night and she needs to meet you some place for a half hour or an hour but then you have to go take care of some other stuff. If if she starts to say she cant you have to interupt her and tell her that day is no good for you, I over looked something I have to take care of. Then you can ask her if she has any thing open on another day of your choice. If she says she does then tell her a certain time and ask if you are putting her down in pencil or pen. If I put you down in pen that means your going to be there other wise its going to be pencil so that my schedule is still open. It puts a FTC on it, kinda like a mini date. This is something I picked up from David D. You have any idea where your going to take her?

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i was thinking of just asking her to go to this place called camden town.its a really eccentic part of town.lots of cool little shops and places to eat.good idea......?

i used the jewellry swap thing before with a load of bangles, for a sweat band, u could jus tell her it was given by a friend an u didnt htink she was a theif an she knew u wanted it bak, u wernt thinkinof askin her out but if she insists then u can try find time in ur schedule for it...
then run on with the DD pen pencil routine

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Let's look at this. Girls are smart. She already knows you want to ask her out and she's gonna flirt with you over it. Regardless of how you try to piece the words together, you're still going to have to ask her out. Best option is to not stress over it and just ask her out. Say something along the lines of "Im going to (location), on (day) you should come along - you still owe me my necklace". Anything that doesnt sound needy is good enough.

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Ring her up say, im free on fridayyy... um.. actually wait no i have a meeting on Friday, im learning how to feed dolphins or something, how about Saturday day.

her: what...

Our engagement omg, do i have you remind you of everything! your such a dick head! thats it im calling it off, screw you! im gonna date that other brown haired chick with pimples, and we can make pizza together.

her: Aha.. ok? um..what

Oh so thats how we are playing it then FINE *hang up the phone*

*ring her again*

I wanna see my necklace again! its hot, so saturday at 3! make sure you don't wear high heels, i hate when girls wear them, i cant take them anywhere special.

her: What happend to seeing me?

Oh and you too.. i guess..

You don't have to go this far, if the first routine hooks go for it. And Ease up the bullshit!

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