Hello, I'll try to keep this brief.

Hopeless at game most my life. Discovered Neil Strauss at the start of this year and have taken off. Still nowhere near where I want to be but have had more success with women in this one year than in most my life. Women have and do find me attractive, I was just too pussy to ever act on that attraction. The only relationships I had were where the woman had the patience and determination to get beyond my shyness to females I'm attracted to.

Since January have been learning to game pretty much solo as Im in Japan. Have met a few like-minded individuals but timing and circumstance means we're rarely able to meet up and discuss/sarge

Now. I have something approaching a serious relationship with a 6.5. We've seen each other a few times and she's really into me. While she is not the most beautiful girl in the world she has a gfreat personality, just really fun to talk to and be with.
At the same time I am still sarging. I got an 8 two weeks back that wants to see me again this weekend. Last weekend I finally got a day 1 (sort of, her friends were there) with an 8 I used to work with and she wants to see me again. And now an 8 I gave up on a few months back is mailing me saying she misses me and wants to see me again. And of course I still try to sarge when the opportunity arises

I'd always believed it was natural for men to want to have sex with multiple partners (Not that there's anything unnatural in wanting monogamy) but now I finally find myself in that situation I'm panicing a bit.

With a previous girl I told her the above (my feelings on monogamy) and if anything that made her more keen on me. She got jealous and more playful. I think it's too far gone with the 6.5 for me to turn around and say "actually there are other women I want to sleep with besides you"

Can anyone reccomend how I should handle this? Should I say I have other relationships to the girls I'm starting out with? I was with a girl yesterday and although Tokyo is a big place I constantly had images of another girl coming across us at the bar we were at.

Is there any good reading on multiple relationships?

Yup that's it. Wasn't very brief was it?

Your choice man.

Either tell her and everybody else that you have a MLTR.

Or cheat on her.

Or be monogamous.

If you tell them then make sure you treat every single one equally well. Otherwise you will have problems. Like if you go on vacation with one you have to go to the exact same place and the exact same hotel with the rest too. Otherwise they will begin to punish you for whatever.