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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2008 11:26 pm 
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Howdy fellaz!?
This isn't really a question, rather a post-report on my ex. But if you feel you have any suggestions or comments go ahead and shoot me some!

Pre-story: I broke up with her a lil over a week ago. She seemed like a sweet girl who wouldn’t play the game. Boy.. was I fucking wrong. She lives with her sis and casually hangs out with her 21~22 yr old cousin who is a HB 9.5 with the same score body.
I started out with her with a mindset of creating a lasting relationship. My mistake was letting her know she meant a lot to me early on. I asked her out 3 days after we made out and a day after I fucked her. After that I could sense that she was losing interest in me, but this is my first relationship since about a year and a half and I really wanted a girl in my life. I went “all in” too early in the game, I really wanted her around but I let emotions run my life. Bad bad bad.

Anyway, today I texted her and told her I wanted to get my hookah back. She acted like she was busy and was going to school to finish some assignment, I texted her back said its not a problem. She said nvm I can come pick it up and that her sis was also home if I missed her. I neged her for trying to play a guessing game... blah blah blah. So I show up at her place (my mindset was to get the hooka, I'm over my one-it is with this whore, thanks to the support of a few forum members who gave me very helpful suggestions to my previous post).
I pull into her parking lot and see a car pulling in right behind me. I knock on the door, her sis opens, we greet each other, I walk in there and the bitch is sitting with some tool working on some project lawl. I say whats up guys!? walk and get my hookah without asking, hug my ex as she gets out of the table, the cocksucker she was with gets up to shake my hand and introduces himself. I tell her to get the tobacco out and right when I walk out two more suckers walk in (the ones that pulled right behind me). I say goodbye and walkout lawl. With a straight face and enough confidence, but I think I could of played my cards a lil better and played a bit of my own game. Oh well.

I do apologize about the long ass post. However my friends; there is something you all should take from this and learn on my very afc mistake - that is DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE WOMEN. No matter how helpless and cute she is, she plays the game well. They all fucking do. And if you think this PUA business is weird or some shit like that, well I got some news for you: MOST women PLAY, ALL hot women PLAY. Take this advice from an AFC (me).
Their sisters, their fucking cousins, they will all help them play. You are by yourself.
I got into my car and instead of sobbing like I have been my whole life after rejection, I actually understood something important: life is a fucking game man. I got a confidence boost after leaving, I don't understand why yet, but I do know that I want to get good at this game and if it wasn't for school I would be studying game like a maniac.

Good luck to all of you!

*Edit*: a detail I forgot to mention: Girls lie, lol. She has been walking me around her finger when I was dating her by telling me she was busy with school and ETC EVERY time. This is what made me try to do things an AMOG would never do. I tried emotional shit to get to see her and it worked, but when I realized that I fucked up. I thought that wow she must be really self worthy by big goals in life. Nonesense, it was a game. Remember how Neil Strauss tells you not to lie unless it's flirtng, well fuck that, how does one compete in this game without employing the same tactics? Is there a way to counter lies? God damnit! lol.
Tommorow is monday - classes start again, I'm going to try to meet some girls. Beef me up fellaz! Boost my confidence even more! HORAAH! :twisted:


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 1:01 am 
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You don't need to lie to play the game well..

Hovever: Having a clear idea of what is and isn't other people's business is a MUST! Don't share too much, and don't share too little. Don't reveal all your feelings/thoughts at once. You always have to preserve some mystery about yourself. I've found that a mixture of pure honesty and silence/"that doesn't concern you" (said in a respectful, matter-of-fact way) works best for me. And never let a girl's little games faze you... she can play her silly games as much as she likes. You can tolerate some, but if she crosses the line tell her calmly that it ISN't OKEY for her to behave that way with you.. and if she continues, just act as if she's losing your interest. Which she should be, in any event. What kind of guy would want a manipulative bitch for a girlfriend? A guy without self respect, that is. Please don't be that guy :(


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 1:43 am 
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You don't need to lie to play the game well..

Hovever: Having a clear idea of what is and isn't other people's business is a MUST! Don't share too much, and don't share too little. Don't reveal all your feelings/thoughts at once. You always have to preserve some mystery about yourself. I've found that a mixture of pure honesty and silence/"that doesn't concern you" (said in a respectful, matter-of-fact way) works best for me. And never let a girl's little games faze you... she can play her silly games as much as she likes. You can tolerate some, but if she crosses the line tell her calmly that it ISN't OKEY for her to behave that way with you.. and if she continues, just act as if she's losing your interest. Which she should be, in any event. What kind of guy would want a manipulative bitch for a girlfriend? A guy without self respect, that is. Please don't be that guy :(
I agree with you for the most part. But honestly I feel that all women I've dated make their daily activities seem very important by lying.

Check this out - this is my usual daily routine: school, study, read some interesting stuff (like this PUA site), maybe play some video games. That's it.
I was honest with her about what I do (not PUA though :D, I just say I'm reading a psychology book lol), she basicly learned I was boring lol. I should of made some things seem more elevated, like she did with school (I know some of you reading this might be thinking "what a tool, she probably does take school seriously". Trust me guys, this bitch was just elevating herself by lying). As I recall my previous relationships I remember girls doing the same thing, I mean there must be a thing PUA's concieve that elevates their average daily activities to have a meaning. I need to work on my self confidence right now, I swear I feel this energy in me and I know I can start banging college bitches left and right, I just need a confidence booster and a few friends with good values.

Anyone have ideas on establishing your boring daily activities as more important?
Come to think of it style was right; flirting is not lying, I'll just think of telling her I study and get A's to flirt lawl.

Aight guys! Take it E-Z!

*Edit*: dude honestly they will all manipulate you if you let them. Not just women, men also, dogs. Anything that learns will manipulate you if you give it what they want.


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 1:53 am 
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To quote Ice T... " If the bitch wants to take a flight, tell her your a pilot. "

Yeah, she got bored of you cause you were not a challenge enough for her. You also probably came off too needy and clingy. She knew she could have you at any point. You probably wanted to show you are a laid back kinda guy and that was dlv. You need to learn to DHV more next time you are in that position. Let this one go, complete freeze out. If she tries to contact you, ignore her. Women will go out and get laid just cause they are bored.

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