I moved to a new town and don't have many friends. I have been doing a lot of reading on PUA stuff and lots of non-PUA related study (ie hobby stuff, and good for DHV).

So a few days ago decided to go into town by myself...

The bar I went into was empty except for the bar owner/barmaid (HB8) and her husband.

I was just doing some light chit chat with the 2 of them for a while.

I didn't want the girl coz it's a pretty small town and these 2 seemed to know what was going on around the place - and fucking her and pissing off the husband could cause a lot of problems for me. So I basically concluded this girl would be an awsome pivot for future endeavors.

I wanted to do some CF with the girl but was a bit hesitant with the husband there.

So, first question: With the abovementioned situation in mind, how much game can you do on a girl with bf/husbands around?

The bar was very quiet but people filtered in and out over the night (not a single female customer the whole night!! WTF!!). I spoke to pretty much everyone that came in and was talking to the girl intermittedly for a total of maybe 4 hours. The husband left about 1am and having a few *looseners* in me at that point, so I amped up the CF. She was AWSOME practice. She kept coming back at me with all sorts of shit...

After a while we were chatting again and she was basically just yabbering away to me. It was quite late, around 2-3am and she was starting to get pretty drunk.

Second question: If a girl is yabbering away about just general shit, this is a good sign right? I just maintained eye contact with her, and smiled and nodded occasionally. Threw in the odd comment. Was this the right way to handle this?

Third question: She said several times what a great guy I was, but I'm wondering that given she owned the bar, how much can I assume she was being friendly to keep me there spending money? She certainly SEEMED genuine.

During this time she also started talking about some guy she knew. Practically had an orgasm talking about this guy, but just a friend as far as I could tell. Again, I just sat there and listened. I didn't want to diss him or be a smartass coz she obviously really respected him, and I want to meet him myself (for reasons that are irrelevant to this post ). Did I do the right thing here?

*An important question*
During the various conversations that we had she mentioned that she had other boyfriends. Also (some time later), when it was getting late and we were both quite drunk she mentioned that she wasn't going home and would stay the night at the bar. I can't fucking beleive I didn't notice at the time, but is she dropping a hint here? These 2 things combined suggests to me that I might have been able to f-close if I'd been so inclined...

Basically though, I had an awsome night and got heaps of quality practice in. Although no women came in, some of the guys there were great conversation. And, as I discovered, CF is GOLD! I've just been getting David DeAngelo's free newsletter but after this experience I'm definately going buy some of his products.

Cheers

If you had of invited her home she would have gone, no doubt. if a RG is talking about side action that means she is DTF. The only problem is that you said you were very friendly with the husband. which makes it tough. but a Rg talking about side action is a sign she is DTF. keep that as a general rule next time you are sarging. Don't worry about dropping the ball in the world of P.U.A. you can only make gains you have nothing to loose.




Happy Sarging

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Thanks for the response!

That's awsome! Like I said, fucking really wasn't really my goal. Just wanted to create sexual attraction. I feel this is a MAJOR turning point for me.

What does RG mean? Does DTF mean Down To Fuck?

Again, I want her as a pivot. Other considerations make fucking her potentially very complicated.

Any suggestions on how to use a HB8 bargirl as a pivot?

DTF is down to fuck and RG is relationship girl

and bartenders are very easy to use as pivots everyone talks to them so thast a huge social value builder, and they can introduce you to other girls just stay friendly with her and things will fall into your lap

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I'm not old enough for bars yet, but i have been reading some college material and the rule of thumb for college is to remember that it is a closed community where almost everyone social will meet or hear about someone else who is social. (IMO this should apply to small towns as well).

From your post I understand that you are social and have no problems communicating with strangers, that is good and I'm still working to that point.

Anyway second rule of thumb for college is to befriends HB's with a potential gateways to more HB's. Since she owns the bar she must be popular in your little town and most likely knows all the HB's there.
your mentality is very strategic in befriending her, I'd try to do the same, you have overcome your instinct for reproduction for a greater cause of using her as someone who can introduce you to many more sources of reproduction.

lol @ my post

Good luck!