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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2008 12:12 pm 
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I am a complete noob so these questions might be stupid :) :

I was experimenting with some openers last night and I ran into a bit of a problem. Most girls I approached reacted in the way I wanted, but then something unexpected happened.

I approached this girl who was like a HB 8. I approached her in the right manner: I walked over confidently at a slight angle and talked to her over my shoulder.

The thing is, when I tried my opener, she didn't understand me, she said: "What?". When I tried it again she still didn't understand me. At this moment my confidence was already sinking. I didn't know if I had to repeat my opener, or hit her with a neg about her bad hearing or something. I decided to try the opener one more time, but when she still didn't understand me I bailed out.

This was at a party, so there was a lot of noise, but the other girls I talked to could at least understand me.

So I've learned that I should talk more clearly, but my question remains, what do you do when girls don't understand your opener up until the point of utter embarassement? Do you giver her a neg about her hearing? Do you keep repeating your opener? It's hard to remain confident when you have to keep repeating your opener.

Also I have another question:

I also experimented with the same opener on friday and number-closed a girl who was also like a HB 8. So now I got her phone number, but I don't actually know what to do with it. I decided to definitely not call or text message her the day after, but now it's been two days, so I'm thinking I should call her or something.

But what should I text message her or say to her on the phone? Is there like a routine for this? I used to to just text message a girl one day or two days after when I got their phonenumber and just asked if they wanted to go for a drink, but now that I'm into the game that just seems boring. And since I'm trying to go from AFC to PUA, I want to really try to get it right and be confident that I'm not making obvious mistakes.

All advice will be greatly appreciated!


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2008 12:48 pm 
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For your first question. I would have definitely negged her. And if thats your money makin opener. You could have kept trying to get it out. But never repeat it verbatim. Then it sounds like its obviously recited.

2nd question- When I number close, I usually give it a few days. I dont want her to think I'm to needy. Also when I ask her to hang out, I simply tell her I'm out and about on some errands and ask her if she is interested in taking an adventure with me. I never let her know what I plan. Cause i dont have one. Run to the post office, pick up some groceries, buy a card for my aunt's birthday. Random shit. Then when your hungry you eat. When you need to get gas you get gas. Try and make every stop/evolution as interesting as possible. Dont make her the center of attention he entire time. She is the lucky one hanging out with you. I could write so much more on tactics that I go for. But I'm tired.. haha Take it easy Brother, Do Work!!!
-Ky


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2008 3:42 pm 
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Thanx for the advice man!


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