Hey what's up guys? I can happily say i've been a decent amount of blowjobs lately so i've been thinking about them. Although i LIKE eye contact when i'm getting blown as well as dirty talk, i don't really push for it. As a dominance/ownership attitude, would always having the girl give you eye contact beneficial in her investing more in you? She can see who's dick she's sucking, reinforce her action so it becomes natural/comfortable. And what about the talking dirty? I've heard from girls that it feels "weird" and they feel stupid making eye contact while giving head. Anyone hear the same?

But that being said, if you keep pushing and always have them give you eye contact and talk dirty, wouldn't that allow them to become more comfortable with you overall?

Thanks for reading

damn i would think this would be a popular topic, i mean who doesn't like blowjobs...and who doesn't like having a chick stare into your eyes while doing so? And based off of all our knowledge on eye contact shows confidence/comfortability/dominance, the thought of combining an act we all want and her having good associations toward you would be two very important things.

Eye contact is amazing... especially if she has nice eyes to begin with. Whats interesting, I recall a girl (around 8.5) who would not for the life of her open her eyes while doing it. I think her confidence issues and the fact that she HATED the idea of being a whore (she wasn't... more of a looser IMHO) averted her from it.

there was one girl who didnt like when I stared...
c'mon, its one of the best views you get in life... but I don't have an opnion on this subject..

different strokes for different folks...

cheezy I know...

But, some girls just aren't used to talking dirty and/or never really did it before. So, if you push too much with that...they may start to feel uncomfortable.

I personally think there can be too much talking...some girls I've been with do the dirty talk a bit too much. I say...less talk-more mouth on me.

umm dumb question ...how are they talking dirty and giving head at the same time?

But yeah saying look at me can never be a bad move right?

Couldn't agree more. Remember though, like anything in Pick Up she has to "feel" that she is the benefactor.

Just say, "Oh yeah, ah baby, lets see your eeeeyyyyyeeeessss, those ggggoooorrrrgoues, pretty eyes. Look at me whilst doing that"

Lifted straight from a porno movie, works 100% in real life.

Yea, this is a point where I like to throw some, "heart felt", compliments at the girl. After all, she is pleasuring me. If she's gorgeous, I'll usually throw it out at this point... with a slight pushpull edge: "you look so gorgeous down there." After sex, I lay on a few more compliments before falling asleep. I wouldn't say this is all so much PUA as its how I feel it is appropriate to act under such circumstances.

Yes, finally have my 30 friggin posts!

from a girls point of view: i dont mind eye contact...makes me feel sexier. i mostly close my eyes as i get into it. as for the dirty talk......i love when guys say what they like and am i enjoying it and so on so start off low and be like do you like this.....mmm baby. how much do you like my dick yadda yadda

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im just a girl, youre just a boy...can i make it any more obvious.....cliche yes..but o so true