I have an idea that works like gold. I live in Washington State and there's tons and tons of asian girls in Seattle that go to UW and such. Preferably Chinese women, And maybe korean and everything else.

It's like this.. You go outside and everyone speaks english right? She might not understand it 100 percent but she knows what it is and hears it everywhere. Now, if you took the time to learn a few words of her language and you were talking to her and busted out with a hello, how are you in Mandarin or korean, etc.. That is an ultimate DHV in any culture.

Because you are a foreigner who's interested enough to know about her language and culture and you'd automatically be good with the friends as they'd be more than willing to teach you as well as her.

It would be more of a attraction but also comfort also. Because she would feel just that much at home with you as if you understand more about her. It's like one of us americans leaves the country to a foreign land and nobody speaks a lick of english, you would feel all alone and then you turn around and someone starts talking to you in english about Micheal Jordan and american music.. You would bond really easily with that person. Even if his english wasn't perfect, right?

Just take the time to learn some few words and work on pronunciation and you're money. The good thing about it is it works on all cultures. Trust me it's been field tested already with me and friends(I did it last week on this esl korean girl ).

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I made the mistake of being charming and handsome... I apologize

Thanks a lot dude. Thats what im talking about. Its diabolical

yeah cool man, u seem to be really into these girls so go for it.
I suppose the manning up advice might sound a little silly the first time you hear it but it definantly helps. It's all about swallowing your pride etc. It's something i suppose you have to get ur head around first though.
Often the simplest solution is usually the best, and work on your own method while doing this mission and post it on the forum so other dudes having the same problem can take ur advice.
My suggestions might be a little strange themselves as i'm new to this stuff too.
Let us know how it goes
peace out
nutriman

I was watching this thread to see where it would end up. . .

It's not bad but there are some issues with the opener above for use in the US. Most of you guys don't know the difference between the languages and you may actually not match the correct language with the girl. (Although this could actually even be a better opener. More later) The second problem is that unless you really take a class as a second language and learn more than just hello . . .how are you, you come off as some yellow fever inflicted grease monkey who studies one liners for the purpose of picking Asian girls.

The Asian game is different but the difference has less to do with openers and routines and more to do with cultural and social dynamics. Many have noticed that Asian girls run in packs but is that all you've noticed? Guys, don't you remember watching National Geographic specials on Baboons? Those individual primates have clearly defined positions in their packs by order of importance. Asian girls are the same; they even walk in similar formations as the baboons. Seriously, 4 out of 5 times, the alpha is NOT walking in front but chilling out back where they can see all the action. Now I'm not saying that this "order" doesn't exist in the West but here, you have the alpha-mother hen, then everybody else. With many Asian cultures, this order is clearly defined from top down. They even call each other, "older sister . . .younger sister . . . and a word for somebody on the same level."

What does this mean for you? Well, it just means you need to bring a tight game. Defining, addressing, and dropping the bitch shield of the alpha female is an absolute must because after that, the alpha female will even go as far as to play match maker and HOOK YOU up. If it's a mixed set, approach the guys. Completely and totally ignore the targets. If you do not do this, the guys of the set will often feel that it's their "duty" to tell you to F off. The girls will comply. If you do not understand this, you might luck out and you might not . . . but you'll never understand WHY you F'd up when you do . . .

Openers: If they speak English well, do not make yourself look like a dumb ass and try out a foreign language.(Unless you really speak it well) This is the most played out AFC move out there and it is nearly an insult. Just be a regular PUA and go for your regular routines. If you open up and they put up their hand and signal that they're short on the English skills. You smile, "Oh . . . cool . . ." (Now look like you're really curious.) Just speak clearly . . . They understand everything if they are in the US to study . . .they're just not confident about speaking . . .but they'll warm up.

Now you pick a country. . . .but you pick one that is OBVIOUSLY not where they are from. Give a big happy, "Eureka Face" and say, "Korea?"

90% of the time, they will laugh and wave no but sometimes they will already shit test with a bitch shield but you just keep going . . .

"Oh, wait, wait . . I know . . .________?

"No, no no . . ."

"Wait a second. . . I'm usually very good at this . . .this is so embarrassing . . . ________?"

Then you end with Mongolia. "Alright . . . I give up . . . eh . . . Mongolia!?. . ."

Throw your hands up like you give up. . .

90% (Just have to play the odds. . .) they will give you the correct answer. And you should have your segway ready. Great opener and neg combo for the fresh of the plane set. If I wrote more, it would be much too easy for you . . .

Honestly, I think you guys are making it way more complicated than it has to be. If there is a language barrier, then you have to rely more on body language and kino. You also have to understand that just like any race, some asians are under a lot of pressure to date with in the race.

As an old chinese lady once told me "You can have a chinese gf but not a chinese wife."

This pressure however can work in your favor in because some young asian women will want to rebel against this kind of tradition and will date a white guy who is ironically a lot like their father.

It depends a lot on whether they are from a western country or from Asia.

Since you are saying there is a language barrier, I'll assume you mean she is from Asia. For an ice breaker you can say something in their language that the average joe would not know. For example if she is mandarin chinese, you can say jokingly say something like "Ni hao, ni yao laowai nan pengyo ma?" ("Hi, do you want a foreigner boyfriend?")

The other thing you have to consider is that because of the language barrier, it doesn't really matter what you say. You have to use body language even more than you normally would. The great thing about language barriers is that you don't have to worry about saying the right/wrong things because they won't understand you anyway.

Also keep in mind that if you try and impress them with your knowledge of asian culture and your mad chop stick skillz, the initial thrill (if she's impressed at all) won't last long and you can come off as creepy or desperate. It's way better to leave bread crumbs of your talents rather than to give her the whole loaf right away.


Or you could just kill their boyfriend with a katana, it works in the movies.