Is it possible to move from LJBF?

Yes

NO

Absolutely! LJBF chicks are the funnest, because they're the most challenging. LJBF girls wanna fuck you, They just dont know it yet. Go with that attitude. You already know her, so opening is out, Start DHV'in and she will eventually move you up the ladder to her heart/vagina. haha Good luck bro been there squashed that!
-KB

LJBF. the ugliest shit a girl can throw at you. how dares she? he missy do you think you are something special? maybe i thought so until i heard that line. actually it told me only one thing: that i tried to impress you. now you think it is your right to crush my heart with this bullshit. "i am not interested in that way ... blabla" need a knife to cut off my balls? i guess i already handed it over.


never ever give away your power. never ever try to impress her. never ever be just the nice guy.

and if you want to get out of that zone, get back your power, dont give a shit whether she likes what you do or not, make clear that you are sexual being.

although why would you want that anyway? maybe once you get there you are not even interested in that way yourself anymore. because there is a little secret, the harder it is to get something, the more precious it seems. but that is not much more than an illusion.

I think it depends on how your friendship is with said girl.

With some girls who sort of "LJBF"'d me, I have a very flirty, constantly creating personal jokes friendship. I believe that THAT is the type that can be reversed into something more. I've managed to reverse all those by creating a sexually-charged personal joke and continuing it.

If you have a more.. serious friendship (Not the right word I think, but further along that serious spectrum compared to the example above) then I believe that you won't be able to change it.

Be careful though.. It does irreversibly change a friendship.

-Dro

Well - we did used to have a very flirty relationship but that has all died off of late and become a little more of a 'normal' friendship.

So would that be to say that its a case of turning converstation in more sexually charged conversation with more inuendo? Giving off a much more amog vibe, and showing who the man is?

Tyree

Be prepared to lose your friend. The ones you have had sex with are never gonna be the same. It will be like an ex-GF. They are never as fun to hang out with as real friends. People say "Were still friends" but what they really mean is "I have not removed her from my life".

Pshaw - if you frame things properly, you need NEVER lose the friendship, and in fact you should be able to make it MUCH stronger and more equitable/balanced than it EVER was before you'd become playmates.
That's where you're right. No question, once you've removed all the tension and unnecessary stress from your relationship by explicitly, WILLFULLY removing all pretense of having a 'boyfriend/girlfriend' relationship, your female friends will be able to have a far-more intense and far-more honest/intimate connection with you than they can with ANY 'boyfriend' or even their closest girl friends.
I can't comment on that, I have no exes. Just 'girlfriends-in-remission'

Johnny Soporno
Worthy Playboy

so you're saying that by talking about sex on a matter of fact level then you're raising her comfort levels about sex with you and therefore will also heighten the solidarity of the overall friendship and be able to raise it to a sexual level?

Tyree

That's exactly right - PRESUMING you're actually, genuinely friends with the girl, and will remain so whether she engages you on a sexual level or not.



Johnny Soporno
Worthy Playboy