Sigmund Freud once wrote;

"The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is “What does a woman want?"

Only you can answer that question. And there is no doubt a guy out there who will be more than happy to help. I suggest you try to be a little more outgoing. The guys will appreciate it.

You can also try to use a few more 'go' signals to guys you are particularly interested in. One of the most alluring women I've ever known had a habit of standing next to me and gently rubbing her arm against mine. Although nothing ever happened between us (she was currently living with the son of a prominent car dealer in the area), I remembered this girl for a long time.

A little kindness goes along way. Too many people out there go out to bars, etc.. and attempt to take their personal problems out on everybody else. When in reality we are all just a bunch of lonely souls looking for some type of human contact/connection. The challenge of course is to break the chains and fears that bind us.

It's not easy knowing there are so many fruitcakes of both sexes walking amongst us. Especially in bars.

Freud also thought that every human action is governed by sexual frustrations and that all women are constantly begging for a shagging.
Ah I dislike Freudian thinking.

Relevant post? No.

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On the contrary..

It was relevant to the young ladies question.

First she must decide what she's looking for before she can set about finding it.

Is she like many girls in bars just looking for flattery? A relationship? Sex? A friend?

It's my experience that an attractive woman can generally get whatever she wants from guys, if she's upfront about what it is, exactly, that she wants. Alot of times they just don't know what they want from a particular guy until the right one presents himself. For guys it's sort of like playing the lottery. You have to buy alot of lottery tickets before you get a winning number.

Guys on the other hand don't like sticking their necks or their wallets out unnecessarily, playing guessing games about what a particular woman is looking for, and then taking an emotional hit.

With enough encouragement a skilled woman can get guys to do just about anything within reason. Communication is the key. And this communication and whatever relationship that might follow is often directly related to the experience level or lack thereof, the intelligence and the emotional health of the man and the woman involved.

...The above was written by a 46 yo male, who is married to a very successful woman...

Yawn........

xamplify, you want to learn how you can get girls or women to pay your bills for you?

May take a while..

You just got to have the right game. Girls or women who can afford to do so don't settle for less.

Have you considered a nap instead?

Why would I want women to pay my bills, I want to earn my own money like a real man and get satisfaction out of my own life....not sponge off other people.....

I only use the game so I get the women I choose to be with, not settle for the the few who approach me.....

neways I'm sure this isn't helping the poor 18 year old beauty queen so i guess its time for that nap x

You might find the first thing that helps is to rid yourself of your gender specific programing, that has been placed in your head by other more successful men. It's a new world out there.. I think they call it evolution. Those who survive and thrive, adapt.
You got the right game, they will all approach you. In a manner of speaking. After all ultimately they do the choosing, not you.
A nap is a great place to start. It helps to be well rested. Hard to do when you're making someone else's fortune for them.

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