OK some of you might've seen my replies to posts on other threads coz i didn't know there was a newbie section, anyway i'm trying to get over this one-itis girl and i've been making some good progress. The best way to get over it for me has been going for a sarge. And i jumped right back into the bullpit with some huge steps.
You see there's this really cutie in my geography class HB 8 others think 10, anyway took the first step with her today, I went and talked to her she's really cute got her name aside from introducing myself, no number though. Later on today she walked by me and gave me a huge smile when i was talking to my friend about some paper airplane flying contest, i waved back and continued my conversation with my friend.
Todays second, i was studying some maths this evening in the library and me and this other girl were getting help from the same tutor, at first glance she looked like a HB 5 maybe 6 in some minds, i talked to her for a little bit turns out she's moved from overseas. We both left the library at the same time and i talked to her on the way out. I made good eye contact and up close she's definantly a HB 8-10 tall, nice olive skin and good dress sense.
Anyway it's the next steps i need help with, i want to at least number close with both these girls.
As i was walking home I was still thinking about the one-itis girl, I'd still like to get things off with her aswell, but i'd say it's normal to still have those thoughts right? I'll let you know how it goes over the next few days, also there's this other girl i want to hook up with from geography aswell, but i haven't talked to her yet. Will do tomorrow.
Looking forward to the advice dudes
peace out
Nutriman

well my thread couldn't have been that bad for no one to reply?
Anyway going back to todays efforts

Started off with the walk to uni, and i saw this girl from my geology class.

Just judging by the face i'd say HB8-9, very cute face, judging by the body

maybe a 1. But practice makes perfect she's quite a nice person and very

intelligent. Which for me makes them a little more attractive.

I went and did a bit of study for a bit and then went to my chem lecture,

where the one itis girl walked in, fuck it made me so nervous seeing

though it was the first time i'd seen her since I told her the way i felt.

I was clamming up and not concentrating. Then I thought to myself, this

little bitch isn't worth the effort of worrying, like one of the dudes said in

another thread, they're just scared little girls. Fuck her!!!! I totally ignored

her on the way out didn't say a word, didn't even offer a glance, it was

much easier than I thought it would be.

After that I went to my geography lecture where I saw the cute little

8 blondie, I spoke to her for a bit and put in some groundwork, direct eye

contact and talking shit, still no number close and haven't seen any of the

others i was negging, but in summing up a good start and feeling much

better about myself too, and it's only been two days since I was whinging

about the one-itis girl.

I need some tips on number closing with the 8 blondie and also the 10 tall and hot from yesterdays post. Can someone please shoot me some tips?

first off id like to say its normal to fall for a certain girl your not going to hell lol...but it does hurt your gaming a bit, if you focus on one person and get clamming in class......but you seem to be making good progress,

reasons your attached everyone has a certain image of the perfect or near perfect someone in there mind.....she walked in and bam, she fit your mug shot for the type of girl physically your looking for.

the other girl isnt 100% what your looking for, but you wouldnt mind getting something going, she easy to talk, fun to talk too, you dont get clammy around her....basically she isnt your ideal physical mate is why your not pissy your pants when you see her...... which is good so you shouldnt have a problem getting the number.....


anyways number close is easy, first listen cause im gonna lay some truth on you...

you dont need to follow routine 100% to get the number.....

now anyways.....talk to her for a week 2 weeks whatever you feel nessary but you see her at school so no need to rush....wait until YOU FEEL she is attracted and willing to go on that date/hang out with you, i wouldnt say dont wait to long wait as long as you want, only obstacle there would be if some guy swooped up on your girl.....other then that take your time, till your ready...


when i get a girls number and am closing the deal

i generally work into a coffee shop routine.ill say something like,

well i gotta go..but you know i was planning soon to visit this great coffee shop i heard about downtown, how bout you tag along? that way if the coffee sucks im not the only one disappointed, or that way atleast you still have my company to enjoy, or im sure youd enjoy it or,

why i added so many different versions of that coffee shop routine is because every conversation is different i could be teasy the hell out of this girl and i just catch a vibe so in the routine then i would throw a teasy remark after my invite, as opposed to if this girl was a little stand offish i was talking to then i would be more inviting like the how bout you tag along im sure youd enjoy it or it seems liek yoru kind of thing...


thats just an example of me inviting a girl when i meet her......sometimes i jsut get the number and walk away....


but in your case something easy to get the number would be.....

studying.... say she is really good in some subject and you either suck or are really good dont matter either way just claim you suck.......and be like you know i could use some help in that subject sometime, get her number and set somethign up..

im sure some pua's wouldnt agree with the whole studying to get the number and if thats the case there saying the pua method is the only way to get a number or the only right way.......


so lie bout sucky at a subject to get the number, plus that way when she comes over you catch on with the material real quick and have time to hang out...

or just invite her along for whatever you damn well feel..

hey! thre is a great coffee shop (blah blah) how bout you tag along?
hey! i heard bout this great place downtown( blah blah) how bout you tag along?
you know i been hearing alot bout this one art museum down town lately (blah blah blah)......how bout you tag along?


anyways you get the point....

there isnt any tricks to getting the number, no secret codes, gestures or hints....just be direct

hey! im going to check out this place im sure youd enjoy it...

..... just dont seem like your needy and wanting the number is all.......


well if there is anything i forgot im sure there is or something i didnt anwser

then message me back...

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cool man i just read your post on my other thread, thanx for replying to both.
The girl that was making me clammy and lose my concentration was the one-itis girl.

thanx dude i'll let u know how it goes

ok todays adventures are below:

I didn't realise it but over the last few days i've actually been setting little

challenges for myself every single day, the challenge is simple I strike up

conversation with a new girl every day that i'm out and about. Easy right?

Ok so i was walking to uni today from the bus and i was keeping in mind my

surroundings and looking to open up a set. Every day there's tons of people

walking by themselves to uni.

But today there wasn't so much, i noticed this girl when i was at the lights,

as i walked thru the park I struck up conversation with her, she was really

nice and turns out she's doing her Phd. Like i said before smart girls put

ticks in my boxes. Ok challenge one completed.

I went to my first class and then to second, a math class. Before going

into lectures I now look for the hottest girl sitting on her own. Bang found

one, i went and sat next to her, after talking to her it turns out she was

majoring in the same thing that i was, during the conversation I was

getting some IOIs so i saw that as a plus. I walked out with her and talked

for a little more before saying goodbye and I'll see u in class sometime.

I'm pretty sure she's interested in at least hanging out, if i see her

tomorrow I'll see if she wants to come with me to get my eyebrow and lip

pierced.

Tomorrow i fear i'll see the one-itis girl, I think i'm just gonna ignore her again and if she does speak to me i'm just gonna be a little bit of an asshole to her. But it's upto her to come speak to me

Oh my fucking god, what a boring ass fucking day. On my walk to college from the station didn't spot anything, i was searching but nothing. At college nothing. In class one but didn't get the chance.
With the exception I did get this girl who i'm friends with to come and tag along while I get my eyebrow and lip pierced. After that I just went and had some beers.
What a revelation (sarcasm)

ok so there's been no sarging today, but there is something i want to talk about.

There's this girl who's a friend of a friend, she's 32 so seven years older

than me. On her birthday we kissed a little bit but nothing happened after

that. I saw her at a mates birthday party a few weeks ago and we talked

but nothing happened. Anyway the point is she messaged me on facebook

during the week and asked if i wanted to go and catch a movie on

saturday night. I said maybe coz saturday (today) is grand final day and i

have plans to go watch the game. She said she'll call on saturday

afternoon and see what my plans are. Anyway i think she's fucking with

me coz i messaged her last night to let her know that i should be good for

it and she hasn't got back to me yet and i honestly don't think she will and

don't care either way.

I'm just wondering why would a girl would ask me out and then just fuck me around? All that she's achieving is making me think she's a fuckhead.

also i know letting her know i should be good for it was probably a mistake

man everyone just loves your posts, good thing im not the only one responding lol....

that girl not calling and kind of standing you up, after you said your good for it......it could be a billion different scenarios so lets run a few with you

1st, got drunk partied and didnt call

2nd, hanging at home and forgot to call

3rd, family emergency and forgot or couldnt call

4th, out with friends didnt call or forgot tooo

5th, isnt sure whether or not you like her so she asks you out, you say yes and she knows the anwser now

6th, acted on emotion when she asked you to hang out and later that day when you texted her her mood was different like she didnt wanan go or whatever and then had second thoughts

for example you ever wanna do somethign and then 2 days later not want to do it???

7th you came on to strong and blew her attraciton for you to lower levels

8th, better plan could of came her way

9th, she heard the movie sucked and therefore didnt feel like going

and 10th maybe when you said let me think bout it she took it as a no, and said the hell with it...

these are just 10 scenario's that could possibly be the anwser...and if i had to bet id put my money on....

1, 2, 4 and 6

either way whatever the reason.......we can all be certain to say that next time you have gotten asked out like that

id say im busy this weekend,
but tell ya what i believe im free on (___fill in a day____)

...and work the conversation from there

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Are u being sarcastic about people loving my posts? Because i've only got a one star rating and you are the only one replying.

Well that girl did call but she said she wasn't up for it, and that she has a week off work in a week or so and wants to hang out etc.

I haven't been out for a sarge since thursday now and i'm getting a bit pissed off coz i haven't done so.

I also can't believe how easy it has been to get over the one-itis girl. This time last week I was totally hung up on her and couldn't get her out of my mind.

Now I just couldn't give a fuck, I sent her a text saying "listen don't worry

about all that shit that i said I'm totally over it" She probably thinks I'm a

total wack job coz the way in which I feel about her has changed so

dramatically over the course of only one week. I couldn't give a fuck what

she thinks, i think if she died tomorrow I wouldn't cry at her funeral, it's

amazing how love can turn into hate so easily.

I should be going to get my eyebrow pierced with my friend from college tomorrow, she is a girl but only a 5. And I wouldn't mind shagging her but it would get complicated. After I asked this one to come along with me she was giving me all sorts of IOI's touching me etc. She's a good chick and i don't want to corrupt her by sticking my cock in her.
I'll let u know how it goes
peace out
nutriman

Are u being sarcastic about people loving my posts? Because i've only got a one star rating and you are the only one replying.

Well that girl did call but she said she wasn't up for it, and that she has a week off work in a week or so and wants to hang out etc.

I haven't been out for a sarge since thursday now and i'm getting a bit pissed off coz i haven't done so.

I also can't believe how easy it has been to get over the one-itis girl. This time last week I was totally hung up on her and couldn't get her out of my mind.

Now I just couldn't give a fuck, I sent her a text saying "listen don't worry

about all that shit that i said I'm totally over it" She probably thinks I'm a

total wack job coz the way in which I feel about her has changed so

dramatically over the course of only one week. I couldn't give a fuck what

she thinks, i think if she died tomorrow I wouldn't cry at her funeral, it's

amazing how love can turn into hate so easily.

I should be going to get my eyebrow pierced with my friend from college tomorrow, she is a girl but only a 5. And I wouldn't mind shagging her but it would get complicated. After I asked this one to come along with me she was giving me all sorts of IOI's touching me etc. She's a good chick and i don't want to corrupt her by sticking my cock in her.
I'll let u know how it goes
peace out
nutriman

Alot of people is following it like step by step by the book.
DO NOT DO THAT.

Just start to talk with her, and a good start is a compliment. F. example: "love the hairdo" or smth like that. And then she obviously saying: "thanks" Then u can start the with smth like; "We haven't talked so much, but I really want to know you more, if you want ofc." And she can't say no to that. Then she'll agree ofc, then u can meet.

But try to be body active with her, like when ur' with her in a "crowd" then tell a few jokes, get her to laugh and hold around her (IF SHE WANTS) If u see anything that replies to that she don't want ur arms around her, then let go and try again a couple days later, since u can't be to clingy.

Everything is the contact u get when u start talking, so try to do a good first impression. Im not saying that u have to, just try to be as usual as u are. And do not stress when talking, just take it chill. If u stress to much she'll notice and maybe she'll think ur some kind of weirdo or smth.

Good luck talking with her.
Hope my advices can help you to get ur girl

Regards,
Hummle91

oh and also it was reason 3, not a huge emergency just normal shit

hey hummle can u tell me what ofc means?

before i tell the next stage of the ongoing saga I just want to say that the stuff i wrote about the one-itis girl about hating her and not crying at her funeral if she died tomorrow, I'm not saying i didn't mean it but it is a bit harsh and I don't endorse hatred it was just the way i felt at the time and was just using that term as a metaphor to describe that I'm over her.
Peace out will have to add stuff tomorrow as the piercing place that i want to go to isn't open mondays
nutriman