Well, say your in a relationship, everything was completely perfect. You could see yourself marrying the girl. Than it ends because of distance, going to different schools, or something mutual. So you don't make any promises but mention getting together in the future once the problem isn't an issue (yet not setting anything in stone).

This is me. I don't talk to her, I mean I do once every few months or so just to say hi. I do game other girls. I hook up with other girls. I do still occasionally remember the time we had together, yet its only briefly or when I am bored. I know she has fucked another guy and it doesn't phase me at all. I have been with other girls so I don't really care.

This is my mentallity though: I am not going to live my life waiting for her. But, I know that I will want to target her again after I graduate if we both are single. Is this AFC?

Is it AFC to have dreams?

the question really is should i slap you now or later, basically what your asking is is it alright for me to think this way......

what you think?..

i think yes, in my opinion we love, we hate, we care for people, its just apart of living just caues you follow the pua way doesnt mean you cant dream about a certain girl and yearn for the day when you too get toghther, which brougt into that aspect it sounds like you your saying is it alright that i want to settle with a girl for a bit and stop hooking up with and having sex with 3 girls a week.....

dont worry bout the pua way, do what you want.....but remember when you are sarging to remain alpha....even when your dating this girl remain alpha...

and as for me i met this girl 3 years ago, and we had an understanding if we were both single that when the time came we would hook up...well that time is coming up this june and when that time comes we'll see where we are till then i have been hitting up on girls, hooking up, getting numbers and just doing my own thing but still thinking of her.....

so the question you must ask yourself is...

even if it wasnt afc to be thinking of this girl....could you live the rest of your life knowing you had the chance to be with her after waiting so long but you never took that chance??

I dont follow pua material but i do follow my own methods and one thing i know is that the mystery method, double your dating, pua and all the others are not only teaching you how to hook up with woman, its how to act in society stop having people walk all over you, making your decisions...your incharge of your life act alpha not submissive so with that in mind.....

live the life you want...hook up with this girl but odnt lose the game be alpha still and your relationship will go along way


questions???

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I don't think I could pass up that opportunity, without regretting it. I see what your saying. Remain Alpha, and do what I want in my life. Only I can take advantage of opportunities presented. Thanks buddy you made everything so much clearer.

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Anyone else have any opinions about this? Is it AFC to think about your future, let it be with another women?

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why is it AFC to think about your future? Is it a form of one-itis? Yes, but you're still out there meeting other people, staying alpha and true to your self and not letting this lack of being in a committed relationship of proximity stop you from living.
PU is about making you a better person to interact and bring light to other peoples boring lives.
If you think this lady can be your alpha lady when circumstances are better, fantastic.
From the way I think I read it, you only pine for only when you're not doing anything else active, and its not stopping you from going out and living the life that only you can live to make you happy, then so what?

I still think about this fantastic burrito I had when I went to the beach the last time, but it doesn't mean that I can't go out to another taco stand and eat their burritos and enjoy them. And maybe when I go home again and the stand didn't close down or change owners etc., maybe I can get another fantastic burrito, but not be down on myself if its not as good as it was that one time.

Maybe you do get back together and find that you are at different points in your lives, or whatever makes you incompatible. Maybe you find that the skill sets you both bring make for a fantastic life that you can enjoy together, either way be the best that you can be and strive for more.
I had a roommate that dated this girl for about a week in high school, they went their separate ways lived and when they crossed paths they met for dinner as old friends in a big city, and eventually got married and have a kid. Bottom line they came into the new relationship smarter than when they broke up the first time.

I guess man. I wouldn't really call her a burrito, more of a taco... haha

I guess I'll just give her a Long term freeze out, maybe she'll come around. But either way, im gonna live my life, and if i notice the opportunity when it comes around I'll take advantage of it, otherwise so be it.

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Working toward a clear and (appearently) obtainable goal is the essence of PUA for me. Be yourself, just better. Making mistakes along the way is often a crucial part of the learning process.

In other words: Holding on to a dream after it's shattered is AFC... having it to begin with is not.

So I guess my mind set isn't AFC since I don't let it phase or decide who I am. I think the more i post in this thread the more AFC i am becomming lol.

Do any of you guys just think of a girl from time to time when you are doing absolutely nothing... lol

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nothing is wrong with thinking about someone,

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