| Before you read this, keep in mind this happened a while ago and I am still an AFC. My brain is so messed up socially/mentally, that I got a "manic" state. It is hard to describe what this is like, but it feels like taking speed. And no you don't think about the consequences of your actions, and yes you drive women insane. I am not only recovering from AFCness, I am recovering from this shit too.
Anyway, I hope you guys find this interesting, if nothing else. Any constructive comments are welcome.
It is amazing how you can influence people when you believe in yourself.
First Date:
Girl:
Met this girl in class Asian/Caucasian chick cute body, ok face I would give her an 8.5 for physical looks.
Happenings:
Hand Kino
Pacing/Leading
Damage Control
Damaging Events:
One rather rash move on my part, but I played it off well and smoothly. She was suggesting (with words) space, so assuming that she was talking about the space between us I (pathetically) asked her if she wanted to scoot in closer. Here I realize I was paying attention to her words but I misread the trust she had for me. I read the body language well though. I saw that she looked uncomfortable with it so I played it off smoothly like it did not happen. I might have been able to persuade her with my uncanny sweet talking abilities (about trust, respect and how I admired her will to no give into pressure) but common, it was my first fucking “date” ever.
Particulars:
I was wearing a white, stripy, collard shirt and black pants. I have outstanding group rapport. One problem, I feel like I have broken the hearts of most of the girls in my class. Not only do the girls have tears in their eyes, the fucking GUYS have tears in their eyes. It does not make the class very pleasant for me with this on my mind.
Goals:
MY goal: hand KINO on the first meeting is fine for me. Second meeting, I want access to the waist/(some cuddling, side by side) 3rd date MUST be the kiss. 4th more intense kissing/cuddling. 5th: Sex.
Event:
I walked over and sat next to her in class. I took a curvy path (randomness can be very mysterious and attractive at times).
She is trying to impress me, offers me gum and shit (which I dare say I needed). Here is the painful scoop, the girls next to me is making sad sounds (boy I wonder why…) so I pull out a (Thank you fastseduction dot com) Pez Dispenser and offer her one. The star girl, who I will call Dorky Asian follows my lead…good sign… gives the girl a piece of Gum. (This particular move also made Dorky Asian laugh because how many guys out there will actually whip out a PEZ DISPENSER for Christ Sake
Incidentally, my fluff talk leaves something to be desired, if she had not brought up conversations so readily I felt like I may have crashed.
Class gets over, I tell her I am going to get some Coffee, the implicit suggesting being that she should come with me. She did not get that as far as I can tell. Oh well, I have some other business to deal with… Group Rapport ☺.
I confronted one of the crying guys. One who I think if he shapes up could bang fine ass chicks like a Star Quarterback on Meth. He is intelligent beyond common need, his looks are potentially more than adequate. That would be interesting if I could introduce him to my world hehehe.
Anyway… Once I got his e-mail address I sought (embarrassing as that is) out after this girl. Went downstairs, wasn’t there, checked back in the classroom, wasn’t there, walked out of the classroom. All of the sudden she walks out another classroom door… BINGO. We all make mistakes, I asked her (in question form) if she wanted to go to coffee with me. My style and smoothness took ahold and she agreed. So I started out, leading, she followed.
We got some fluff talk going. Tried to make myself seem mysterious, leading all the while. She commented on how her fingertips felt cold… hehehe… So I told her that they would tingle once she got in the coffee shop. This made her laugh. She said that she did not want to get coffee. I suggested she might want to get tea… and she did!
Went well, looking for some place to sit down. There was a big red couch.
Hand/Arm Kino
Aesthetic Appreciation
She seems to be really into art. Which is nice, I am going to go a little more artsy on her. In addition I’m going to tell her to step it up a level if she doesn’t get the picture.
Communicating through body language is so interesting. It is like there is the logical world we live in and then there is the primordial world of sexual communication/flirting. For the most part, I did not pay attention to it until recently. Now I am starting to realize it and it is very interesting.
Once you speak the language you can do so many things with women that you could never do before.
Peace Y'al,
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All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him. -- Buddha (the playa)
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