I don't know what it is about the school library that makes me very intimidated by women almost to the point of not being able to approach girls that i know. But anywhere else I'm fine with it. AND on the bus i just sit there some times i talk and flirt a little but i have to force myself to do it. Can anyone explain why?

I think you have issue's with your self worth. Remember, you are indeed worthy to talk to her. In fact you are the prize and she is lucky enough to have the chance to meet you. Also in libraries you are not in a very talkative state, so starting up a conversation requires more will.

given vibe and implied place is your problem, at the library your there to read, be quiet and do what your doing...i think thats your problem is when you see a girl the reason you dont go up to her is cause you think you would be bothering her given your at the library,

which also comes with it an implied nature to most people that you dont disturb anyone else so with this in mind im sure you probably have a blank mind when you see her and think what do i say......

so here is somethign you can do...

go up and ask her opinion.......

excuse i need a female perspective

and then get into conversation....


and the bus well the seats are barriers,

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and with these seats acting like barriers its like there you feel there is a wall between you, or another room and you somehow for no reason that you can understand dont know why you cant go over to that other room and say hey! and start a conversaton

so when you sit behind her, i bet you have a problem with talking cause again you think you be like interferring her or in other words bothering her,

plus having that seat right in front of your face your probably thinking what do i say, or if she is behind you you probably wonder the same thing what do i say your at a loss for words caue you think to turn around would be completly taboo or ocward you psych yourself out....now im sure on occasion when your on the bus you find something to say but more times then not you cant ...

.... if i had a bet id say the times you talk on that bus (most the times)
is when she is in the same seat as you just on the other side of the bus so if your on the left side she is on the right....cause well those seats arent separating you anymore and its so much more easy to talk cause she is right there you dont have to tap her on the shoulder over the seat to get attention or turn around and talk........ which just made me think of a point, you probably have in your head somewhere thinking she will know im hitting on her

well if thats the case dont worry bout it, act alpha dont care and just do what you want...


and now to talk when she isnt in the row as you i would tap her on the shoulder

excuse i need a female opinion on something

or turn around and say the same line........hope this clears some stuff up




message me back on my accuracy of my assumptions...

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Thanks that realy cleared up a lot of worries! I have one more question about other guys and girls that interupt when you're having a conversation because one time during gym i was gaming the hell out of 3 girls hb7's and some girl just comes from no where and shuts me out! So how would you deal with something like that?

if ur talking to 3 girls and another comes over and you get shut out of the conversation?....well id pick the one closest to you and start gaming her instead, or you can always try and stick in there and get into the conversation........

.but i mean if your were gaming 3 girls and another girls walks over and they all stop talking ot you to talk to the other girl..i bet you can judge what any one of those girls level of attraction for you was....

so yeah single one out and start talking is what i would do, i woudlnt compete for attention and time to talk id just get one to go one on one or if you see the girl walking on over to talk id say well see you later that way your avoiding those girls shuttin you out and it makes it look like your not clinging and needy at the same time...

questions??

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They were giving IOI's which is why I didn't understand why they stopped talking to me so next time I'll try to poke back in. Or avoid the whole thing. Thanks for the help.