Have I blown this one and how do I get back on track.

I work for a large multinational corporation and have been gaming an HB8 milf, we started off having some very hot converstion with lots of sex inuendo and all the rest of it over email. the amount of chat we have now has died off but we still do have the occasional chat a few times a week.
We had arranged dinner/beer a few times but for one reason or another on both my side and hers this has never happened. the other problem it that there is only one night a week she can manage as she has kids. this has been going on far too long now and I can feel me loosing the game, I am stuck and really dont know where to head with it next.

I can feel her loosing interest - please help.

Tyree

she is losing interest cause its been going on long enough and im sure eventually phone conversation with no intial contact ya you lose interest...

she is free once a week so thats fine....hang with her once a week which is good to cause you dont seem like a little bitch then always wanting to hang out with her get what i mean...

so when you hang out just do what you know how to do and im sure her interest will re-rise if things go by well........

if a girl and you wer only talking over the phone and made plans but always cancelled would you eventually start to lose interest???

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Yeah, definitely the more time will pass the more you'll be like a FRIEND not a MAN if it haven't happened already.
Now my advice is that you act as if you completely lost interest show that you dont care at all. And I mean it, make her think "what is wrong over there". Sucking up to her and trying to keep the things warm would only make it worse. If she will respond to this possitively eg bring up sex themes again, then advance FAST and show that you're man and that you take the responsibility. She would wait for that, but she will definitely not show it as she has kids.
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A women with children to consider is - for obvious reasons - more likely to be restrained in the early stages of attraction. The contact you have had with her seems very undeveloped, email, small talk and sexual innuendo is probably not enough to hold her attention or convince her that you are worth wasting her precious free time on once a week. There's only a certain amount of time that a woman will want you for before she moves on. It sounds likely that she may have lost too much interest to be honest. Unless you really like this one, I'd say move on to someone new. Or if there is no one new, simply stop pursuing her completely. This in itself may well re ignite her interest.. You don't miss the water 'til the well runs dry. If this doesn't work, next time act more quickly and focus much more on actual contact. Email is not really the way to start something..

We've had plenty of contact, we've been on courses through work together and worked together occasionally also, I think my biggest worry with this one is the boat has been missed and its got to that hateful friends stage with her.
I reckon it's time to drop this one like a hot coal and up the heat on someone else, if she doesn't like the sudden loss of interest and comes back then so be it.
Off the cuff, if she does come back - could it be worth slinging a line that would imply I've been dating someone else for the past month or something like that?