Ok, this is still the beginning but this is where my game is weak so I'd rather ask the people who have more experience in this.
The situation is simple. I know this guy (not very well) and I am interested in his cousin (she lives with him). I know she was interested (but back then I was not available) however I never talked to her much and now I don't talk to her at all.
I have her on Facebook and I was wondering if the best thing to do is contact her on facebook or befriend her cousin and try to hangout with her that way.
I am closer to her cousin than her.
I am afraid that contacting her through Facebook might make me look like a AFC since I haven't talked to her in about 6 months.
Thanks for the input.

i'm not too great with online sarging, but i'll give you a suggestion.

give her a lil neg. when she responds, ask her how she's been. when she responds to that, she'll probably ask how you are. i would then freeze her out. now for this time period you popped into her head, and she does not think you are hitting on her. she asked how you are and you never responded. this will make her wonder. when you feel the time is right, initiate another convo by letter her know how you are and you've been very busy lately. now, this time make it a lil deeper and try to get some DHV spikes into your messages. do a little qualification and a little comfort, and timebridge a day 2 location. then you # close.

Don't facebook her.

You have been too busy with your excessive social life and wide array of girls to have time to contact a girl that you hardly know. Right? You will look AFC and needy if you facebook her.

Head over to your friends place and build rapport with her. Run ESP routines and elicit values from her. Pick one thing that she says about herself and get really exited and interested in it and tell her something like "wow, I feel so comfortable around you" or "my first impression of you kinda sucked. But now that I'm getting to know you better, you're a really neat person" (credit Mystery). Then maybe run some trust tests and go for k-close.

Good luck.

Thanks for the great replies... too bad 2 response, 2 contradicting opinion but actually it works great for me.
I can't just go to my friend's place and befriend her, we're not that close.
So I will use both, message her first then let her wait and wonder then go see her in person.
we'll see... thanks for the input.