You kino because it's something that you like it, not because if you don't use it you will be afc or in another bad way.

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Great Great post. How do i go about using kino naturally? Im not a touchy person to begin with, so it might come off as akward or forced. . .

Starting kino is the easy part, I've found that it's harder to escalate kino correctly that's difficult.

omg the first two guys to comment on this thread(easylover and southerncross) have the best fucking avatars ever!!! lol

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This is true. It's very easy to touch her arm, shake her hand and put yours on top, etc. upon first meeting her.

It takes confidence and alpha skills to escalate it from there. If you doubt yourself when escalating kino, she'll sense it.

Touching has to be natural obviously...you can't just roll in and paw at her.

If you approach start by brushing up against her arm, tap her arm and say 'excuse me, i'd be kicking myself later if i didn't say this, you look very interesting i'd like to get to know you... blah blah''

Just by tapping her arm, you'll put down her defences.

Oh and never touch them from behind, like put your hand on their shoulders...thats just creepy.

Escalate by kinoing when either of you cracks a joke or says something funny...i.e. shaking her or generally playful kino like pushing away and arm rubbing.

you're pretty much on the ball, just a correction though, testosterone is the male sex hormone, it's a different one fo women.

For some reason this is putting me in mind of people who say hi by kissing on either cheek. That's interesting though to hear about an actual chemical reaction that kino promotes.

Yes, from what I understand David Deangelo doesn't advocate early use of kino but Juggler says you should use it when opening. So, I think the timing depends on your own style.

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It’s true. Women need to be eased into bed. If you haven’t innocently touched them enough, they won’t let you kiss them or touch them intimately. And if you don’t get that far, you’ll never F-close. You need to start right away with the kino and slowly build up, until you f-close. Also if you do it this way, you will know when you have gone too far without building enough comfort first, because they will stop you but not reject you rather than getting slapped. Some women who are lonely are so desperate for human touch, that any kino escalation will lead to an almost immediate f-close (but such women are usually hb6s or less).

Not to be a prick about it. But women have testosterone too. And it affects their sex drive.

awesome post i had no idea kino made such a difference

If posts like "you are a pussy if you don't touch her" motivate you, you should consider building up your confidence. I recommend professional help in this severe case.

Thats a shame. It could've been a good read if you didn't start out so fuckin immature.

Hi guys,

I thought I'd add my views here. My background is that I did not come from a touchy feely family. I'm originally from England (stiff upper lip and all that stuff) but now live in Switzerland.

Ok I have started to use kino/touching when meeting girls. it feels kind of weird but I'm persisting with it.

I've just realised that I'm in a great situation because here when people meet they do the kiss on both cheeks greeting.

Yesterday when meeting a lady I made sure I put a bit more ooomph into the greeting kisses and tried to get in more touches asap. The circumstances were that I only could touch her knee while talking. So I made sure I did that a lot of the time. I even tried to get in an NLP anchor by touching her more when she started laughing loud about something.

It went well and I didn't get slapped round the face or anything. That must be a common fear that if you touch a girl, it will be a slap or the girl ejects or screams or just gets freaked out.

I need to kino more , this last experience has proved to me that it is essential to do. I'm trying to implement it into social situations too. Hopefully with more experience it will come naturally and not a conscious decision at present