Ive had the worst night of my pua life, no , fuck that, the worst night ever.

I approached a set, went into my material "jealous girlfriend" and got shot down by a drunk bitch, who was my target. getting told to "fuck off" in a club is hard to rebound from.

But knowing you guys would call me a little bitch if i let that stop me i opened another set... This time the target said she had a BF, who come over all muscled up and dick headed saying he was gonna "kick the shit out of me"

I ejected as quick as i could to the sounds of "fagot" and "puff". now it gets hard to game. me and my friend (who knows nothing of the game) start to leave when that balled headed twat from the last set fallows me and pushes me against the wall... saying im dead when i get out side...

he didnt do fuck all, but i dont think im can game anymore, ive lost my nerve, i couldn't do a thing in the next club, stood there frozen all night. i just dont know what to do. I need a bit of help or something... any of you had nights this bad???

In my opinion i would do some day game if you feel so intimidated. Make sure you approach lots of set and make sure u get blown out of tons lol. Just because you run into some steroid infused dipshit doesnt mean you shouldn't approach girls.

Ive got blown out by boyfriends multiple times and if they try to Amog you by acting tough, itimidate them using intelligence. Dont pick fights but always leave on top. Boyfriends in most cases are fine with you trying to pick up their girls but once he injects either be nice make friends with him ect ect.

If your playing the set right until you isolate it shouldn't seem all too much like a pick up.

You should have kicked that guys ass, that would've sent your confidence through the roof. Who gives a fuck if he's all muscled up? Muscles are good and all, but all that weight doesn't fight. Fighters fight and win.

Tough luck, the day game idea is good. The best thing to do to muscle bound idiots who catch you at their girl is to be like " sorry man dint mean to hit on your girl.Your one lucky guy. we cool?" At that point they will ether grumble that its ok or still be looking for a fight at which point just keep saying disarming things. if all else fails or it looks like they want to punch your face in offer a round to him and his friends this will make you look good to the friends/girl and they will do the work of convincing him not to kill you. remember guys are just girls that rate under 6.

I've gotten into lots of fights but the best rule about fighting is don't.

get back into the game and have fun!

If some dumb piece of shit actually follows you then say something like "sorry dude, I don't swing that way." You could easily verbally humiliate and emasculate him in a seemingly harmless way, to the point that he'll feel or look like an idiot for trying to fuck with you. Him being insecure and wanting to hit you just for talking to a girl makes him come off as a weak ass beta male and everyone will just think he's a loser. I wouldn't buy a round for people like him, because that only encourages their behavior and makes them feel more comfortable with fucking with you.

I've witnessed this kind of situation before at a party where this tall blond musclebound dumbass (who wasn't even invited there) threatened to slit the throat of my charming, witty, normal-sized friend with a knife, but my friend did a good job of keeping his cool and staying the nice, friendly, good guy he was known to be, and he "disarmed" him that way. Then for some reason, the dumbass popped up again later and tried to beat up and strangle him while yelling "IM REALLY GONNA KILL THIS NIGGA" (both of them were white boys, that's how stupid this guy was). But all that the dumbass accomplished was he got everyone at the party to hate him, and when he tried to hurt my buddy he got his ass beat down by an angry mob (which included me) and never got a chance to do any harm. Also, for the record, this dumbass DOES have a girlfriend, but she's fat, ugly, insecure and rather stupid. The guy he tried to fuck with has a very hot, nice and intelligent girlfriend and has many other girls lusting after him, and he doesn't even know about the pickup community.

Thanks guys.
It's funny, looking back there was a whole host of things i could have done, Just at the time, my afc self had me by the balls.
I could of broke the guys arm... i could of tried to disarm him, i could have amog(d) him back, or tried to be-friend him...

At the time, no amount of training, Game or kickboxing, seemed to kick in... And i was just reduced to a little child, who walked away.



Fuck it, more sets, more people, more practice. If it happens again, ill deal with it.

Great conclusion! Everything is a learning experience. Sometimes people are just complete bitches and blow everyone out. Maybe she was having a bad day, or just gotten hurt by a guy and didn't want to deal with talking to one at the moment. What's important though is that there are many other sets to open and many other women to attract. Just get out there and sarge!

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i would have beat the shit out of him right there and then!
don't let anyone take you for a loser ever again and the women will respect you for it... even if it earns you a black eye once in a while..

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Here's the good news, because this happened to you, I can say with all statistical likelihood, it won't ever happen again.

Now on the other hand you do want to be careful when you get caught trying to pick up other guy's girls. The advice of apologizing and admitting you were hitting on her was spot on. It's really hard to get mad and escalate the interaction when this happens. It won't get you the girl but it does keep you out of all confrontations which lead to getting thrown out and not getting the girl anyway.

To the guys saying beat his ass etc... You're all fucking retarded. The point of this forum is to pick up girls. You can't do that while you're getting into fights. Fighting in bars and clubs is a no win situation as even if you win you have to worry about being kicked out, possibly getting arrested or sued, getting shot by his friends as you leave the bar, getting seriously hurt etc... Every year there's even a story about someone who punches a guy in a bar the guy falls, hits his head and dies. Then the guy goes to jail for murder. RETARDED. There's nothing beta about avoiding fights, it's called being smart.

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dude. thats a load of crap.
girls dont respect guys who get into fights. they respect guys who get end violent confrontations without violence.
in the words of sun tzu:
"Hence to fight and conquer in all your battles is not supreme excellence;
supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy’s resistance without
fighting."

Just another thought. Perhaps you can tweak the story and make it into a nice DHV

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Dude that shit happens when you go to the club and roll up on drunk sluts. Drunk girls have the attention span of a goldfish. Take it with a grain of salt because that happens to dudes all the time. You also need cooler friends. I can tell by your post your friends arent big partiers. That kind of shit happens to me and my friends all the time. Its hillarious. Gaming on a drunk girl is like taming a wild animal. Deal with them as such.

Wow that was ten months ago!? Time heals all, I never got round to turning that story into a DHV, but it sure puts any slumps ive had into perspective.

Well im on a high, if i didnt need my energy for my 21st tomoz id go out and sarge.

this is a good routine now. think of it like that

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Just another quote:

"Its not about how big the dog is in a fight, its about how big the fight is in the dog"

Muscles isnt everything.