Hi all!
I broke up with my gf last night, and it wasn't dramatic, I told her that I loved her but couldn't stay in the relationship because she wasn't spending enough time with me. She said she loved me back (this our first time telling each other that we're in love). She also said that she wants me to forgive her and give her a chance later on when she isn't so busy with school. To be honest I'm fucking confused! 50% of me thinks she is playing, 50% thinks she is honest, I think the real answer is in between. We agreed to stay friends. But I wana keep fucking her, atleast once a week or at worst once in two weeks, but at the same time being able to flirt with other girls around my friends (who she knows and might get reports from).
What should I do? What kind of attitude should I treat her with to make her my fuck buddy?

Just some info: We've known each other for about 8-10 months, Been going out for a month and flirting for 4 months.
I know she is interested in me, but not as much as she was when we started out at the begining of this semester. My mentality is split; I don't know if she really cares about school that much (never available during the week), or if she just wants me around on the weekends, or whenever she feels like she needs some intimate attention. Ahh, being in love is complicated lol.
I'm looking forward to your advise!

I hope you all have a good day!

It sounds like you did the right thing by breaking it off first. I wouldn't have said it was because she was not spending enough time with you though. I know what it's like to be in love, and it is difficult to bring yourself not to see her. So good job with that. I would suggest giving her space. Let her know that you were serious about taking a break by not contacting her for a week or so. She will most likely miss you more. If she knows you are available her attraction will slip. So go out and meet other girls. Whether she finds out about you meeting other girls or not, it will do wonders to your confidence. If she does find out, it's a sort or jealousy plot to play with.
Cheers
Jay

Get this clear. You don't love her and she doesn't love you. Now get ready for a few more facts:

1. She's already fucking the next guy and probably has been for a while. Women generally do not go the "non-dramatic" break-up route unless they already have an emotional/sexual security blanket well planned out. Certainly, she would never apologize for "concentrating" on school.

2. Right now, her interest level in you is nil. Nobody likes getting dumped, even if she's the one who cheated on you and set the whole thing up.

3. Just the thoughts that you want to continue to keep her as some sort of "fuck buddy" is going to F your game up because you will one way or another demonstrate that creepy ass afc "can't let go" attitude to her and women around you no matter what. (The only reason, she can easily move on is because she's been weening off of you through heavy doses of sucking cock.)

So . . . learn from her. You may have "broken" off with her but she's clearly wearing pants here. Move on as quickly as possible. You're already waaay late. Freeze her out completely and put her into the "LJBF" corner. You gotta sarge hard for your own self esteem . . . forget everything else. In a few weeks, you'll probably laugh at yourself for thinking the way you do now.

haha kasabi, I love you man!
Best advice! I wish I knew things you guys do, I can feel the difference, ever since reading Double Your Dating my life began to improve, slowly but surely. I started The Game at the end of summer and right when I finished it college started again.
I love this board! I didn't get the same kind of advice throughout my whole life from my dad as I do from any reply to my posts. I trully wish I could buy you guys a beer .
I'm in school right now, sarging here is different from bars, I'm no PUA, but trust me its not the same as in the Game. I've been labeled as a creepo by two hb's already, but I I rebounded well by telling them I only wanted to be friends and playful and calling them weirdos for thinking I wanted to go out with one of them. Anyway I'm going to have to do a lot of reading over the winter break. Once I load my brains with enough material I will look for people in my city to sarge with, right now though I will be wasting their time.

Good attitude but you don't need anybody to tag along with you and you don't need to go into the city. What's wrong with picking up college girls?

"Creepy" is usually reserved for "REAL CREEPS" or people who simply push their buttons. In other words, it's most likely a shit test. If you tell them right out that you don't want to date them, then everything is finished. Come up with a situation like that again and it's something like:

"Oh, that hurts.(But you're smiling and giggling) Jeffery Dahmer is creepy. The 50 year old toothless guy that hangs out in the library is creepy . . . You wanna see creepy, go to the library. I'm just a kid from the suburbs!"

Then girls like that deserve some shit tests of their own:

"You girls grow up on a farm? . . . I love farm girls. Come on, you just called a goofy kid from the suburbs creepy, you've obviously never been to any big cities in your lives! There's nothing wrong with being 'naive'. . . . It's rather cute. " etc . . .

Just writing on top of my head but just go right back to testing them instead of backing off. There are always different wrinkles to this game but the common denominators here are WOMEN. If you got the college girls to call you creepy, then there's a good chance you'd have heard that whether you were in Tokyo or Paris. Don't "wait" to get better. you can only get better by working it and if you read 2 books, that's enough. Write down some of your materials and go get em'. . . NOW.

Work on befriending as many HB's as you possibly can . . .

How much a slut is she? Will she be getting filled by dudes like crazy? If so, forget about her because shes just going to ruin your life. If she isnt a slut, just try as hard as you possibly can to stick to the rule book and treat her like any other girl. The key is keeping her on a long leash. Ignore her for up to a week at a time. No calls, no msn, no texts ect. Bang other girls, you need options to keep your sanity. Sarge sarge sarge. However you do need to keep fucking her occasionally to keep up the rapport. Rapport = trust+comfort. Good luck.