I was gonna be away for the weekends and an hb said if i happen to come across any lint rollers to buy some for her and i said okay, and i did come across some. How do I give it to her without coming off as AFC?

ask her out.

if she says "no" there are only two ways of handling this

The easy way:
aversion start from the ground up. qualify her and comfort her.
(this works on the preconcieved notion she will 'come around')

the pansy way:
ask her out in person. if she says "no", say "okay i will invite somebody else. "


the manly way (i'm warning this is hard to do)

treat this like any other last minute resistance. the freeze out, ignore her for a solid 3 minutues act like she doesn't exist. then see how she reacts from that.

or start of with a dismissive (funny dismissive) attitude from the beginning of the interaction. and then tone it down to a more serious tone, and say: "hey look do you want to go out with me?"

or laugh at her and say cmon? seriously?

maaaann, i'd probably throw them away unless you can like ruin them in

some way and then give em to her which will be funny.

but dude, dont feel bad i've been there before. infact i've given the girl the gift. maaan biggest awackward mistake of my afc life.

fuck that i'm getting chills just reliving the moment.


the only gift I will ever give a girl is:

a t-shirt for MY favorite band which she will know is modest mouse.

Let me clarify. I'm gaming her over IM. So, asking for a meet before comfort is there it will end it. What should I look/wait for?

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I live the life I want to live, but I will not pass when an opportunity presents itself.

the aim game is in my ballpark.

first of all you gotta incoorperate her into your life...online.

add her to your myspace, facebook, ect ect ect


other than that it can take anywhere from days to months for her to come

around but the more she knows about you....the better.



get her phone number, call her that will get the ball rollin.

picture comments, any comments whatsoever, see if she starts the conversation first. yada yada any interest whatsoever take that as an ioi

Okay I've been wondering, you know when you disqualify/ w/e its called...say "we can never be a couple cause...___" to a somewhat "shy" girl and she takes it the wrong way and gives up. How would you follow up on a disqualifier like that? (still not used to the terms..=p)

--P.S. I'm naturally cocky & somewhat funny but I have a mental block that makes me retract when I think I took it too far when in actuality i pulled back too soon

I think you simply forgot the use of a disqualifier. you should only use it on a egomaniac who thinks your hitting on her and is about to send you off. its just a tool to buy you more time. probably shouldn't use em on shy chicks use em when a girl asks "why are you talking to us?" ect its all about the balance of power. i'd never neg someone ugly just b/c you don't have to. but I'm not 100 percent right now I'm in class so I don't have my library of pickup material availble to look it up. so I might post a redaction

Hmm ok, but the whole story is she's 4 yrs older than me. After she found that out it seems as though she's trying to distant herself from me. When we first started talking she asked me lots of question, laughed alot, and kept putting her sweater over her mouth while giggling (thk its an IOI). Then when we got all chummy she asked how old are you, and after I told her she seemed disappointed (I'm 18 and see her Mon, Wed, and Friday).

i'd post that on a thread of its own. maybe some of these other guys can help, i've always had to lie about my age to make it with someone older. i know, im a bastard.

i've rethought this one actually. its such a tough situation.

dont just look her up and add her on facebook, myspace, whatever. make her give you a link to the url (over im) so you don't look like your thinking about her too much (thus clingy needy yada yada)

and when i said
"picture comments, any comments whatsoever, see if she starts the

conversation first" I really meant watch for picture comments. never

picture comment. Unless you have something funny or different than

everyone else to say (ya know what im talkin about you go to a hb10's

myspace and you see her pics and like 90 comments are "dayyyyuuumm

yous fine" the second you become one of those guys, you are OUT") .

What would be a good and cool costume for halloween? This is to be used when DHV with a girl.

Thanks

i'm not really sure what you're into but i'd dress anything from pop culture

like the guy from house who's name alludes me right now. or three hole

punch jim from the office. i'm not really sure how to incorporate many of

these with meeting girls (cmon holloween is basically a giveaway no

matter what you wear girls will come up and ask "what are you dressed

up as?" if nothing else to make a bad joke)

but im just throwin out suggestions.

girls like things they dont understand like horoscopes or karma and stuff

. so maybe dress up as a fortune teller, magician (it'd prolly help if you

did pseudo magic (the thumb trick ect)

me personally, im ganna go for cute as hell. not for the girls, i dont usually

choose my outfits for them. but i just wanna wrap myself in everything cute, soft,

comfortable ect.

or just wear a bathrobe and slippers like i aspire to every day. i've already

got the slippers but i havnt found a quality bathrobe so yah tahts me the

most chill peacocker ever. its actually kinda cool walkin around in slippers

all day it really affects your entire attitude (you walk slower because you

cant really run in em, you always follow paths so you dont get em dirty.

and for some reason i stand up straighter.) i'd highly suggest it i cant wait

to see how a bathrobe is ganna affect my psyche.