I met some HB9 in a club on a Thursday, we were making out and really got along. We then met again on the Tuesday, grabbed something to eat at a restaurant and then went back to mine to watch a DVD. Everything went great apart from when I tried to escalate multiple times it was a complete no go. We were kissing for quite a while but she wouldn't allow my hands to wonder. I usually just start feeling certain places to make her horny but it's like she is completely immune. It's also hard to completely freeze her out when we're watching a movie so I just kind of left it.

So now heres my question, the girl in question seems to be quite inexperienced when it comes to sex and therefore quite nervous. This is our third time meeting and without trying to sound too big headed I can tell she really likes me. Another note she lives in a tiny village and is quite posh so I don't want to come on too strong and intimidate her.

With this in mind how should I escolate?

When it comes to this type of thing I'll do anything, I don't get embarrased so any help would be appreciated.

A classic situation. This is tricky for many reasons.

Firstly, if she really is inexperienced sexually, you might want to back away unless you want to have a LTR with her. Girls tend to cling themselves to whoever deflowers them for the first time with the force of a black hole. So do keep that in mind.

Secondly, let's say you're willing to take the risk of being her first. In this case, have her come over again to watch a movie or some dumb shit like that. Your escalation process begins 10 minutes after she comes over, and should only last 30-60 minutes before you f-close her. Start off by teasing her like an older brother. IE: Throw pillows at her, compare hand sizes and comment how small they are compared to hers. After teasing, initiate a make out session. After about 3-5 minutes, escalate by squeezing her hips. Caress them slowly. Bite her lip, and pull her head towards yours. Another technique I've found that works is to nibble the lip like a rabbit eating a carrot. Trust me, I've done that with every girl I've dated and it gets them off like a rocket ship. By 10 minutes you should be fondling her breasts. Squeeze tenderly, as if you're holding a water balloon that could burst if held too tightly. Now by this point, she should be soaking wet. And so on and so on. You get this point.

Just make sure every escalation point is rougher than the last. If she tries to deny you, freeze her out by getting up and make something to eat for yourself. Come back and eat it in front of her as if the two of you had never even been making out in the first place. It WILL drive her crazy, and she WILL want more than she did before.

Also, remember not to spew logical thoughts onto her if she denies you. For example:

HB9: I don't think we should do this, we're moving too fast
AFC: Oh come on! What are you, in high school? It's not a big deal, it's only anal sex!

HB9: I don't think we should do this, we're moving too fast
PUA: I know, this is so wrong.


Just agree with whatever she says and keep escalating. I don't know why, but that kind of shit really does turn women on.

Alright man, I expect a dope field report after the next time you two hang out. Good luck!

That is absolutely what I wanted, your a legend. Thanks loads.

Anyone else got anything to add?

but what if some other guy deflowerd her her first boyfriend and noy thier are back together but no in the same city much less same state?? just use boyfriend destroyers?? orrrr????

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just remember just cause pua's think rubbing her there and kissing her there will work doesnt mean it will...

there is something called will power and if a woman doesnt want to have sex just yet and is firm with her believe, then you wont get anywhere no matter what you do

thats just a reminder to let you know that if all else fails and the tactics you read up on dont work it might not be your fault...

..she very well could be talking it slow and is extremly strict about it, there are people out there like that and no amount of foreplay or sexual touching will change there minds...

but lets hope you get to where you want to go.....

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It went really well actually, I could tell she was infinitely turned on with the tips given. Like you say though I beleive she deep sense of pride and wouldn't give into me in the end.

We did everything else but the main thing but it took everything in her power to say stop. In the end I just respected her decision and had an enjoyable night.

It's definately on next time though