Hey Guys, I just wanted to put this out there because I am sure I am not the only guy who has thought about this. I just don’t know if I have the right attitude now. I have been married and divorced and am in my late 30’s. I have tried this Pick up thing and for 4 months now. Have not had much success. Got probably over 30 numbers with really no results and am frustrated. I think that this is such a hard thing to have to go after women and put yourself out there all the time and deal with fake numbers, fake women and it feels to me it’s a waste of time and effort. I just feel freaky exhausted. So we as guys have to be the ones getting all the rejection and have to constantly hunt these women down. Is it my attitudes sucks or are there any other guys who feel my frustration? Help I need you guys to give a fellow guy opinions. Thanks for your comments in advance.

What's your outlook on life? What age group are you gaming? Are you looking for a girlfriend, wife, f-close buddy ect..

Judging by your post, you are lacking self confidence. Also, you seem to be seeing PUA as we have to "hunt" down women. No. You can not make women love us. We don't hunt down women. We make women fall in love with us. I take it you are into PUA very seriously and you are attempting to do everything exactly as is written step by step. That is what makes a difference between a PUA and an AFC, the ability to adapt to any situation, not just using a strict memorized routine.

Other thing I want to ask. You are getting phone numbers so the girls are interested, but what's happening from there buddy?

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yes its true, women, though supplicant in nearly every other aspect of american culture, still run the dating scene. but do not get discouraged friend! usually fake numbers come from not spending enough time in the comfort phase, really take the time and put in the energy to make her feel safe around you, and your flakes will drop. but i mean, why fret? like any other game, the more you play the better you get. i think the terminator himself said it best, "The last three or four reps is what makes the muscle grow. This area of pain divides the champion from someone else who is not a champion. That's what most people lack, having the guts to go on and just say they'll go through the pain no matter what happens." basically, work through the pain and rough, youll be glad you did

Hey Son1ce thanks for your help. To answer those questions. I rate myself a 9 when it comes to a postive outlook in life. The age group has been night clubs ages 21-26. I think maybe I am dealing with too you of woman for my age and maturity level. Looking for all of the above. Eventaully re-marry again. Yes it seems man have to do all the work. We have to Pick up or nothing happens. I am not gifted with model looks! Yes in PUA very serious. Being going through mystery stuff, Mehow this website. Yes learning. Yes trying to follow evertyhing as it is written. Get phone numbers but, I don't think my emotional connection is strong enough for them to return my texts or calls. Thats all the answers so far. I really apreciate your time and comments thanks!

Ok try this bud. Next time you receive a number, call the girl 3 days later. Tell her, do not ask her, tell her to meet you for lunch. I think you're problem is that you are coming off as desperate, or looking for a relationship. If you come across as all emotional, the girl is going to ignore you. Younger women tend to not like to have things planned out, they would rather go with the flow. Just because you got the phone number, doesn't mean you are "in" as you can probably tell. You still need to game her and get a sexual connection with her, BEFORE you start expression emotions.

So to sum things up, get sexual with her, and than start spending quality time with her. Get to know her & let her get to know you (solid 15-20 hours) BEFORE you start expressing a desire for a relationship.

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