Ok, there is this girl I have a crush on. She is in the same art club at college as me, so we obviously share the same interests. As a group, we are always together. We are all pretty much friends, seeing movies together, talking about art and video games and so on. Problem is, she seems absolutely uninterested in anyone... and not just at the club, just in general. Thing is, she is beautiful enough, and I know that unless I act soon, someone else will. Problem is, I only get to see her once a week since she lives far away.

So with my current relationship with her, I am just a friend, like everyone else. My understanding of seduction is that you need to know what kind of person your, forgive the phrase, target is in order to act in a way she finds desirable.

Any help would be great. (PS, I know it looks like this is my first post, but I just haven't posted in a while so my old profile went inactive.)

she lives far away......well you need to ask yourself, what do you want? and judging by you having a crush id say its a relationship

if you want to date her then it be best forget bout it, she lives far away how often will you see her besides that once a week you know?....you need to think it over....

you say she is uninterested in everyone huh?.....could have a boyfriend, could be a lesbian, might not want a relationship, might be getting a divorce, coudl be married, could be worrying bout the kids she has at home.....it could be a billion different scenarios....

so really the choice is yours..

but respond to this message and give me a little more detail on what is going on, but if i were you id try to find a time were you can study art toghther hell tell her there is a cool art museum at so and so place and that you shoudl go and check it out....

but message back and let me know

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if she lives far away why bother

Even though she lives far away, he still sees her once a week. I would advice against a relationship, but he could at least try to f-close her. Which brings me to my first issue, you don’t even like calling her a target. You need to become much more confident in gaming before you can use it effectively. You need to enjoy sarging targets, other wise you will always come across as afc.
First I would isolate her from the group and engage her in a conversation. She’s probably just shy. Once you get her out of her shell, DHV, and kino her a bit, she will be chasing you. It is very important that you isolate her so that she doesn’t feel like everyone is looking at her and judging her, because she may reject you based upon social perception alone.

Well, let me clarify. I see her only once a week because that is when your club is. But she and I go the same college and she is in my city quite often. She does not have a boyfriend, I am at least 90 percent sure of that. She seems a bit like me. Dating is just not that big of a priority. But it is true that I do have bit of a crush on her. (Don't worry, I am not infected with "One-itis")

Just trying to figure her out. I for one am not normally seeking out a relationship, but that does not mean I would reject one if I liked the person. I am guessing she is the same way in that respect. But then again, women are weird.

As for distance, I live in San Francisco, she lives in Oakland. It's not that far, I could easily make the trip, it's just that other than the club, we have no similar classes that we attend.