I really don't care, I will answer to the best of my abilities but you are guaranteed to get an answer.

if its personal feel free to pm me.

side note: i'm not claiming to be a mpua or anything but i do have knowledge that could be used.


so ask away, or just tell me a funny story about your day or something i don't care.

i've got a ten page paper due tomorrow so i might not answer immediately.

lol, okay then. so i have been gaming this girl for 3 weeks (we see eachother 1 time a week in college), so iv'e got some IOI's from her, but not really physically (like touching her hair), its more verbally like:"hey, we dont see eachother often don't we?" (invitation to see more often).

I got kino escalation up to her hair, but It was the 3rd time we saw eachother, and i started kinoing at the 2nd time. I just hope i'm not in LJBF... i # closed her and did shits like thumb war and other games... i don't really know what's doggy bowl eye so i don't know if she wants to kiss. hum... yea BTW, i make her laugh a lot, i isolate her often, and i do feel some attraction cuz i can kino escalate pretty easily... well do you think i should do a kiss routine while we're alone?

thanks dude.

I'd say it sounds like you've got more than enough ioi's. And its never really hurt me to do mystery's routine of "do you want to kiss me?" and if she responds with anything other than a direct no, go for it. and if she does give you a no then just say "it looked like you had something on your mind" then step back to attraction and progress logically.

avoid the ljbf, kino like hell make puns constantly about how you are such great friends. you should probably call her and arrange a date it seems like she is ready, seeing once a week if you are obligated doesn't really count.

hmm does she ever call/text you? or do you always start the conversations?

like this girl and we hung out, we were gonna go drive a few hours away go do some stuff but her mother over heard her and now we got to stay within the area, so we stayed within our city and hung out had fun i took her home said good night, then later on next week i went to a party and she was there we talked a bit but she also was talking and hanging out with another guy i felt more so then what she was with me, but of course she doesnt like him cause he already asked her out and she said no, so anyways left the party and went back to her house a few days later and hung with her and some friends she was talking to her friends and me but was a litle distance but still be talkative, we hung in the sauna a bit and then went back in to watch a movie, later we were discussing with everyone isf we were gonna canoe down the river we hadnt agreed yet but she said she woudl call with the decision she called me up and i came over but they alrady went she said they didnt go far and it was a last minute thing, we hung out and then i left and now i am wondering does she like me and should i persue this

yeah, well prob. ask her out... and I start the convo with texting, she doesnt.
But i don't know about mystery's method... sounds weird to me, hah but i think i am gonna do palm reading, and if she squezes my hand at first, in my palm reading im gonna do "omg, i see something, but i dont know if i can trust you" and then do mystery's trick, do you think it could work?

well smith that's quite a convoluted story. she probably does like you if you have hung out at her house and she actually did call you (bad move always keep the calling ball in your court) as for the canoeing incident that was probably a shit test to see how you would react. god, i hope you played it cool.

if you havnt gone anywhere physical yet, i'd say she wants you to be just another orbiter. if you feel like an orbiter whatsoever, I'd bail out.

nobody, i think I would suggest staying away from the parlor tricks. you

are out of that stage, yes its great when you want to isolate a new girl

you just found but I cant see much other use to constantly doing these

things. you need to start building comfort and then move to seduction.

here's my five second course on comfort.

david deangelo tells you to treat her like your BEST friend. would you

touch your best friend? indefinitely.


mystery tells us to start learning about each other’s’ life, job, friends,

hobbies, family

Finding commonalities: similar interests, similar experiences

Discovering shared values

Sharing vulnerabilities

Winning peer approval (her friends and/or family like you)

Doing activities together

Making future plans

Projecting future adventures (more complex; discussed below)

Leading her through a range of emotions,including some strong ones

Being trustworthy, especially in situations in which she has to rely on her

trust in you (e.g., being

in your house alone with you)

Not pressuring her for sex

is it a bad idea to kiss a girl for the first time while her friends are around?

and what are some lines to say after kissing her?

omg thank you very mutch, ill tell you how it worked out
i am gonna vote for you instead of Obama

haha i found the quote feature.

calaris3, if you are comfortable enough to kiss the girl then isolating her

should be much of a problem. just tell her you have something interesting to

show her or even better just ask her friends if they mind if you borrow her

for a minute or two (this is great because it presumes she is going to say

yes, thus showing confidence. and alpha male behavior)

so I dont see why you should have to deal with her friends. if she doesnt

go off with you, shes not going to kiss you, I know. bummer.

a good line after you kiss her is: "eww *fill in answer here that applies

e.g. makeup, onions, your like a girl (last resort) that will throw in some

humor and take away from the awkwardness of the after kiss moment.

remember two steps forward, one step back.

and then you could probably say something again like lets try that again

just this time just don't *fill in dumb/playful thing here*.



i made that up all by myself, im soo proud.

Ok, i have a question thats to dumb for its own thread.
When you aproch girls that are standing but have free seats adjacent and you begin your opener. if half way threw it, or during the aftermath. how bad of a sign is it if one or more of the girls sit down???

I know im being pernickety but its happend a couple of time and i just wanted an oppinion on it.

i take that back, I might have gotten it from the game. but who cares. oh yah dont use onions or makeup use somehting dumb and playful instead. dont wanna offend.

seems perfectly fine there are only a couple of scenario that could play out here.

1. they are simply getting comfortable in your presence, they arn't eager to walk off. (if this is the case you must've used a fake time limit)

2. they are trying to cut you off by making you linger awkwardly on the outside so you could ask one of them to stand up for a second, and then sit in her seat and say : "ha i stole your seat" making her linger awkwardly

3. they are bored. but i highly doubt somone with the guts to approach a set would be boring. so just incase im ganna say dont be boring.

So the HB your talking to you is coming off and saying she is not interested but you know say... 75% that she really is.

I'm guessing she's being hard to get/shit testing.

What do you do?

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hmmm. well that all makes good sence, i always use a time constraint and i know im not boring so im hopeing its no one.

However one of my sticking points is group domination, im not to hot at hooking a group of say 4. though the two i do hook have a great time