hi there PUA masters

i got into this stuff some time ago and since then i've been doing pretty well with women... i basically can get any women i want attracted to me (even girls that aren't "single") which is awesome... i have an excellent "eye contact" game that makes them very attracted and inclusive in bars and clubs i'm the guy that goes to the dancefloor alone and all of the sudden, loads of girls stick around dancing and flirting... well, sadly enough i'm still trying to overcome my AA but i've been doing some progress

anyway, the reason i'm writing here is cause i have this gorgeous girl from the office that is older than me (lets say, i'm 25 and she's 34)... i know that she is attracted to me and is always giving me IOIs, well, as i told you, i've been succeeding with women and now i know when they are attracted to me...

the thing is that when we are alone or when we went out with the company's people, despite the fact that she is always following me around and flirting and she never pulls back when i try to advance with something more physical, i'm feeling that she has something in her mind that pulls her back from being more physically interactive with me (of touching me more)

i've done a lot of tests in her, including physical escalation, hand holding and squeezing... caressing and smelling her neck, etc etc.... but in this paricular case i don't feel that she is comfortable to escalate to kiss... and i'm thinking that she has something on her mind that pulls her back from getting intimate with me cause we have such an age difference...

i know that the age a lot of times doesn't mean nothing and i know that she's attracted... but as she works in the same place as me, if i take the wrong move it won't be easy to handle after that... that's why i'm being so caucious on this one....

so, posting this, the question is... how to help her to overcome the age issue on her mind?

(sorry for the long text)

cheers PUAs

its really up to her

yeah

Well, easiest way is when you first mention ages you say.
"I'm ## but, you're not one to judge me by a number are you?"

It will blow it out of the questions.


NOW... since she knows everytime she mentions it, it will be a shit test. She's bringing it up to make you prove that your Mature/old enough. Just joke about it, She goes.
"I don't know if this will work you our ages are far apart"

Respond with something cocky/funny
"ya, I feel like I'm going to have to buy dapeenz for you in a few days."

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Basically you being younger is a dlv. She is constantly worried about how she will be perceived by her peers. Don’t try to convince her that age doesn’t matter, that’s tantamount to begging and very afc. You’re only hope is to DHV the hell out of her and flip her evolutionary switches. Do or casually mention things that portray you as a leader, protector, providers, powerful, confident, and mature well beyond your years. You might even try to become friends with her friends, so she will not be as apprehensive to be with you. Women sleep with men whom their friends are attracted to, its called social proof.

u should associate with and AMOG men her age when you are around her, throw in a few negs and dhv a lot. Another good line which i find works when she says "but you are so young!" is "i no, sucks for you!"

This thread is making me happy, because lately I've been hanging out with a really cute 34 year old woman from one of my classes (we go to a community college) and even though shes fun to be around, she's always giving me shit about my age (I'm 20). But if you guys are right, then I guess I've been handling it well so far. When I first told her, she said "I'm old enough to be your mom" but then I said "well at least you aren't old enough to like Ike." She didn't get it right away, so I reminded her that it was a slogan from the 50s and said "I guess I'm really older than you." Then another time we were eating lunch together and she asked me what my age was again (she's not good with numbers) and I reminded her it was 20 so she said "wow you're a baby!" and without even looking up I just said "no, just a baby face" and that tickled her real good.

But I would like to get more advice and info on what else to do in this situation. She lives in an apartment and I still live with my parents so things could get kinda tricky.

Older women are the best, ever since i left school i've been a huge advocate of dating older women. Fair enough she is older and she might feel ,like kolel said "a bit worried about how she looks around her peers" simple equation dude remove the peers from the situation.
I was in a similar situation when i started dating my ex fb, she was 5yrs older than me, and because she was worried about how it might look infront of her peers. But the same thing i knew she was attracted to me but was nervous in front of our work people, so i simply moved the work people from the situation. And it was sooooooo much easier for both of us after that. Now i'm in a similar situation but with a girl who's 6yrs younger than, i think it's way tougher with the younger ones
hope it helps
regards
nutriman

nice thoughts from you guys

well, the thing is that she only talked about age on the first time that we went together to a co-workers party... we barely spoke at the office at that time but we had been flirting and she was excited to go with me on the train...

we spoke during the journey and by the time we got to the destination she was already over me and flirting a lot

during the day she mentioned once that she was too old already (in a joke kind of way), and i knew that she was 30 something so i said: "yep, you look clearly over 40" and she cracked up and never spoke about age again

she is becoming real close and she is already in the state of laughing of my "non jokes"... the last time that we went out before last friday, she was slowing down my escalation a bit, but she never cut off...

last friday i teased loads and escalated a lot the physical contact (as i said we almost kissed), but i still feel that she was a little bit worried (i'm not sure)

on saturday i texted her and she replied in an engaging way and today she was with a completely open body language... so i think i might thrown off the "issue" already... since i was making her friends laughing on friday and they all "loved" me and so i was really high in DHV... her best friend is "on my side" so... i'll just keep teasing my target at the office and by text

depending on how the things go this week maybe i'll tell her to go out with me and my friends... otherwise i can wait for another party that is taking place on the week after and k-close there...

my plan is to tease her, escalate more physical contact and then finally isolate and run some little games to escalate to k-close...

what does it sounds like to you peepz?

how do you know that age is the issue?

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i don't know... i guess that it may be an issue, or maybe she is just teasing as well, cause she slowly lets me build comfort and rapport and she also does that by herself...

should i just rip of that thing from my mind and keep doing what i'm doing?

hmm dam wish a post like this appeared sooner... i have a similar problem =/ (MrFickle adviced me 2 post it so i will after i eat), probably only difference is that it's my 1st week in the game.

A girl is a girl. Treat any of her comments about age like they are just another shit test

Show that you're not after her.. show some form of disinterest.
Take her out somewhere for lunch or some drinks..
Get her comfortable with you away from work and see the difference.

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yep, i've been with her for some drinks already but the other people from the office were around... still, she is opening already and even at the office this week she looks very different and very open and loads of IOIs

this saturday i'm going to tell her to come with me to do something that no woman can resist... cloth shopping! i always go shopping with some girl to get opinions, and i really need to buy some more cloths... so that's the perfect situation... if she accepts, i'll k-close her for sure... if by some reason she can't go with me, i have no problem... i'll get another girl to come along and next weekend i'll game her more, but again, with some work peepz hanging aronud... but this time will be at home of a guy from work, so i might get some opportunities to get out of the environment with some lame excuse like "let's buy some more boose" lol

you guys reckon that i'm having the right thoughts? **