im about at the period of time this girl wants to make out with me...but i havent ever kissed a girl and i dont really wanna suck at it. is there a way to...practice..so i can get to the point of a good kisser. Any advice is welcome,ty

Interesting question, I have never really thought about HOW to kiss a girl. I always did what seemed natural. All I can say is be gentle. Open your mouth slightly, don't use your tongue unless she does. And be the first one to pull away, this sub communicates un-neediness. I guess what I do is take it in turns to suck on each other's lips, if that doesn't sound weird. It's a lot harder to describe kissing than I thought it would be. With regards to getting good at it, the only way to do that is to practice with real girls, so take this opportunity for some practice.

how about holding her, should i frame it so we are standing and im holding her neck/face, or back ...or should it be with her sitting on my lap , etc...which is the safest bet??

oh,
and should i chew gum or breath mint, or do you think i should eat something sweet? What if i get a boner while were at it?!?!?!

My goodness. I guess there is a lot to take into account isn't there. I always carry mints with me. My favourite are the eclipse orange ones:) I don't know about gum. Just have a mint when you can feel the opportunity coming. With respect to touching her. You want to be in close proximity before hand. If she's sitting on you then great. If you are standing get your hips close together. I would say if you want to make it romantic you can touch her cheek or her neck near her ear. I don't know what to say about your boner. I wouldn't worry about it. They are not likely to notice.
Good luck mate,
Jay

ouches, lol but thanks buddy.

Kissing is really no big deal. You just pucker and kindof un-pucker. It's hard to explain. But don't just push in all dead-lips like because you'll probably bump teeth. Once you get started it will come naturally. If it seems like she wants to make out, just hold the kiss and gently move your tounge between her lips and move it right to left. She will then use her tounger to encircle yours (depends on the chick). Then you two will probably make circles with your tounges (depends on the chick). No big deal. Don't overthink it. And you probably won't get a boner unless your really really sensative, or you start to feel her up or something.

Lolly Pop....seriously....
In general you will suck at first. There's no getting around it. It takes time and practice. You'll get it around the second or third time around, or half way through it.

Dont suck her face off. I have a frend that does that and it scares girls away. Sends them running

In this case it really is better to say what not to do rather than what to do..because it is far too hard to explain kissing and the only way you will get good at it is practice..

Ok..
You don't want to engulf her mouth..so try to be gentle. If she wants you to kiss her harder/with more tongue generally she will make this obvious by being more "aggressive" as such.

DO NOT USE TOO MUCH TONGUE. This is the most common mistake young guys make. There is nothing worse than having a tongue shoved down your throat.

Don't use your teeth for obvious reasons. Attempt to avoid clashes.

Only use your tongue IN her mouth. Do not attempt to lick her. This is not sexy.

At the end of the day,the best thing you can do is just try to relax, it's natural to be apprehensive about your first kiss, but it really isn't such a big deal. Just let it flow, do what feels right at the time and you can't go far wrong. In regards to how you should hold her, again these are just complications, the only thing I would say is don't try to dive in for the grope too fast. If it is also her first kiss then she may not be comfortable with this at such an early stage.
I very much doubt you will get a boner..if you think you might then it's probably not best to have her sitting on your lap. We can definitely feel it..hopefully she'll be naive enough to assume it's something in your pocket..

dont overthink.

try kissing the top of your hand
make sure you swallow your salva before you kiss her.
no one likes to make out with a dog.