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PostPosted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 7:56 pm 
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Sup guys! Hope everyone is having a good weekend.

Neg proof girls, do they exist?

The reason I'm asking is because I tried gaming this girl with Negs, DHV to get attraction. My negs just seem to bounce off her. Shes staying over at my place because she is my friends-girlfriends, friend. If that makes sense. I had like 1 hr of alone time with her just trying to game her. She thinks I dislike her. Every time I negged her, I had a huge smile on my face so she knew i was just kidding but she doesn't seam to get it. She will be like
Her: "Omg Waffle! you're such an asshole blah blah blah".
Me: "Whatever, just to you"- big smile on my face
Her: "Jeez you dont like me or something" -something like that

Aight well i'm not sure how to deal with this?

I really don't have oneitis with this girl, but I'm just wondering why this isn't working?


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 9:12 pm 
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maybe you negged her too much? the hotter she is the more negs she should be able to handle, but there's always an exception to the rule. she could've maybe just gotten pissed off at you negging her the whole time... the first girl i tried to game since reading about these techniques got a bit pissed at me because i negged her too much... couldnt really recover and had to abort.

maybe she didnt have a good first impression of you? maybe she's just closing herself off because of the mutual friends? maybe she's a lesbian?
...or maybe there is such a thing as neg proof girls


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 11:28 pm 
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lol! i had the same problem hxc, the first girl i ever tried to game after reading the forums thought i really hated her, but i mean, the more you do it, the more you get a feel for it so to speak. and as far as neg proof, the idea of negging is inborn, meaning you are born out of the womb, with the desire to impress your betters, just look at children preening for there parents, so if negs arent working, your either going too hard, or your DHV arent working the way they should

-one AFC's opinion


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 21, 2008 12:34 am 
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So if it's not working, then try something else. Negs are really an oversimplified way of trying to tease a girl and really aren't as effective as people would have you think. Teasing is MUCH more effective. I'm not going to go into length here about the difference, cause I don't have that kind of time at the moment, but if you look around the forum, you can find some good info on the difference, I've written at length about it several times already myself.

Some girls don't ever respond well to teasing, that's just not something that they go for. A lot of guys I know, don't like it when a girl teases them, yet if a girl doesn't tease me, then I'm not attracted to her. It takes all kinds and there's a lot of them out there, so learn to calibrate based upon the person, not just stick to a rigid structure and beliefs about what will and won't work. I can guarantee you that what works in Calgary doesn't work very well in NYC from personal experience and the experience of several other people I've discussed this with; the same goes for what works on one girl and what works on another, it varies, so you have to learn to figure out what will work and what won't and then act accordingly.

It's not a problem that she doesn't react the way you want, you just need to learn how to approach it differently. It's not her, it's you.

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 21, 2008 8:17 pm 
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Hmm interesting. I was reading some other threads about teasing and negs. Would it be safe to say negs should be reserved for HB 9+ or girls with huge egos?

Edit: Wait, I think i just need some calibration rather than not using negs on girls that are < 9.


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