i need help to build attraction quickly and go right into comfort with a friend the bad news is she knows a lot about me basicaly everything so i need lots of help

i gotta say, what a great first post to make. you've got a long road ahead of you, and unfortunately this girl you're interested in may not be a part of that until later down the line. first off, how much experience do you have in gaming? how many girls have you been with in the past? what kind of social proof have you built for yourself in your area? Are you popular, nerdy, loner, etc. and lastly, welcome to the forums.

thanks. i guess im somewhat popular i have never had a girl friend and im in high school i am able to attract girls but i have trouble just taking the step even after they says she is interested

alright. it sounds like you've got a ton of inner game to work on. i suggest before you dive head on into practicing the art of gaming, read these books.

the game by neil strauss
double your dating by david deangelo
the juggler method by wayne elise

and just for kicks, the mystery method.

after reading those books, work on yourself as a person. pick up an activity, like a sport or hobby. become an interesting person who isn't afraid to speak his mind. when you really feel socially comfortable, begin working at gaming. try to remember that in the realm of high school, social proof is everything. win a girl's friends over and you've won her too. i wouldn't suggest gaming girls in high school though. should you fuck your method up, she'll most likely go around and tell your fellow student body what a weirdo you are. also, here's a little tip. ALWAYS KINO. even if you aren't gaming, just throw some light touches on girls. hugs, handshakes, shoulder clasp, etc.

good luck!

thanks i will definetly start the kino and ill be sure to read the books

also, a couple things to keep in mind...

1. DO NOT GAME ANY GIRLS YOU ALREADY KNOW. you've most likely set the frame with girls that you're nothing but a friend, and unless you're a master PUA it'll be hard to shatter that image. if you really want to game a girl you already know, then break away from her for a couple months or so, and then try to reframe yourself for her. but don't try this until you can honestly say you're an mPUA

2. DO NOT become a social robot. meaning a PUA who uses other PUA's material as their own. mold your gaming to your personality. come up with your own openers, negs, DHV stories, etc. be your BEST self. remember, there's NOTHING wrong with practicing canned material while just starting out. but try to think of them as training wheels... they'll eventually have to come off.