ok now i got some attention i relly need help.........

theres this girl i relly liked i told her when she had a bf,but he lived miles away, she was my freind before hand we were relly close ...anyways we started getting it on for about a month keeping it a secret..... now shes gone of to uni which is 3 hours drive .... and iam just thinkin she will forget me and be back with her b/f.... what do i do to keep her intrested?...

Oh dear....hmm where to start.
I have been here, or here abouts in my afc days, so your not alone.
Okay, read a book called the mystery method:venusian arts
and the game by Niell Strauss.
Thats long run.
You could ask her to go shoe shopping with you. Then bring another girl with you when shes expecting you to be clinging to her like a needy dog, that will really shock here.
Use a neg; a neg disqualifies you to her, so she can relax around you;
Omg I like your nails, are they real (only if they are false btw). Then she admits no. Oh, well I guess they are still ok.
Or "Omg, when you laugh your nose wiggles, thats soo cute! laugh again.!

Good luck man!

This is a cool blog google found;
http://www.venusian-log.com/2006/10/

Dude... No. First of all, if you've got something going on with her, you don't need to bring another girl. If the girl already likes you, then you don't need to neg.

Call her every once in a while, just don't call her every day. Be interesting when talking to her, and don't just "chit-chat" but have something interesting to talk about. Tease her a bit, and don't always be the one to call.

Jazzy_Ways has a good point, and that is to spend time with her. Invite her over do something (something new and exciting is always a good thing, but coffee is OK to). When she's with you, tease her a bit (no, that does not mean negging), build some kino and just have fun. Alot of guys get caught up in the whole "Ammagad what do I do!?!", but as long as you have a good time, tease her a bit and do something exciting once in a while, you'll make it.

The key is to not to be needy and having a life beside her, and still staying interesting, confident and attractive. Remember: you're the one in control, man!

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<Facher> Who the fuck drinks alcohol at 2 PM?
<Chief> Oh, you silly non-New Orleans people

...i asked to see her at uni, shes says come in 3 weeks i dont miss u yet... shes already started with the txt such as .... you should be lucky iam texting you at all...(its like shes playing this game with me) shes getting big headed do i just back off now ?... before she left i said to her cant we be toghter even though your at uni i drive i could come see you, she was like..... its to much hassle uni is a diffrent life blah blah blah but i cant even go out now without thinking of her now!..... however we do still txt and the night before she left she left her good mates to come out with me...... but iam thinking to just leave it now??.

man... why do you still fucking care? dont ever say a word to this woman again, she's putting you in a SO inferior state that I feel bad for you...forget it

also, I think you have oneitis

Leave her.

demonstrate preselection and give her one itis...

lol you kinda got it tho... just, uh.... don't be an AFC about it

Can people please stop giving random Mystery Method-advice?

Brenoporra and The Ghost are right. If she's acting like that, just don't give a shit. It seems like you've got oneities, and that will make you outcome-dependant. It may seem difficult, but forget about her for a while. Start doing other things than depending on her, and meet other girls.

If she's making you feel bad, she's not worth you attention. Think of it: would you even consider being with a girl who makes you feel terrible?

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~ Nightfox ~

<Facher> Who the fuck drinks alcohol at 2 PM?
<Chief> Oh, you silly non-New Orleans people

didnt speak to her the entire day ...then it got the better of me so i rang her ...and she was like why havent you texted me!.... i said well if you wanted to talk you knwo my number text me ... she goes you know i dont text first.....
we had a little chat then shes like let me call u back
she called back i nevr answerd and she left me a voice message saying u dick pick up your fone and i could hear her saying to her freind hes not picking up his fone ????...... is this a good sign?

shes back with her boyfreind game over ..so fucked

It happens dude.

It's all part of the game. She may have seen you as a hook up but not a long term dating option because she knew she was going to Uni.

At the end of the day you still banged her and enjoyed your time with her for a bit. Now buck up and go meet some new girls.

S

Man I would cut it off before your heart gets crushed...All PUA shit aside its not worth the heart ache you will get if you keep going on..She is just using you and your jumping all threw her hoops when you call or text..She knows that you will call or text so she isn't worried..As for being back with her bf who knows who cares..If you keep beating yourself up over this girl your going to be so down and feel like shit,and then you will not like that feeling..So give her up and move on before its way to late...

hey guys your proberbly all getting sick of me .... but without soundin emtional ive got no where else to go for advice....

basicly she rang me she was slightly drunk, and started saying how shee misses me, she then said give me a kiss over the fone i was like no shes like what if i give you one first, i said go on she did then i was like cheers didnt give her one back, i then got passed to her freind she was like ive herd so much about you..... blah blah blah.... and then she came back on the fone and started saying how much she misses me again and if i did ... i didnt buckle or give in no matter how much i wanted to.. then she said ill call you tommro but she never did ....i still relly like her ... but i dont know what the hell to do now!!!!!!!...

still think i should just move on?...

Calling you and doing that when she's drunk.. That's just cold...

Just get away from her. She'll probably keep doing this, confusing you and messing with your emotions.

You don't deserve someone who does that to you. She can be as cool and hot as she wants, but she deserves no attention from you if she makes you feel bad.

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<Facher> Who the fuck drinks alcohol at 2 PM?
<Chief> Oh, you silly non-New Orleans people

Whether you want to be with her or not, the best thing to do is move on. If you keep letting her dictate your actions and play with your emotions, she will just keep doing it even worse. The hardest part of being a PUA is being emotionally distant, while pretending you’re emotionally interested. If you allow your emotions to become too involved, you are bound for heartache.
You didn’t start out this conquest as a PUA and it’s going to be hard to finish it as one. If you really want her, you’re going to have to risk losing her. I suggest that you tell her directly that you’re moving on with your life and actually do. Find another girl to make a jealousy triangle and reemerge in a couple of months as a new man. A confident PUA reborn from time apart. Without a break, she will simply sting you along for as long as you will take it, like the AFC you are. When you come back you can sarge her all over again, but this time with confidence and as a PUA.