I'm way into the comfort zone with some chick and she suddenly asked if I was a virgin. The honest answer would have been no, but then I realized girls might not want sloppy seconds, so I changed the subject. Are girls more attracted to guys who had sex before or virgins? What if the girls are virgins themselves?

thats the perfect time to be cocky funny. Cmon boy! Don't give her a direct answer that a girl can judge you off of.

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I live the life I want to live, but I will not pass when an opportunity presents itself.

Well, are you a virgin?

Being a virgin is mostly a DLV, but if you are, you should be honest 'bout it (they'll probably find out anyway).

Whatever you answer, don't get all defensive about it. Don't go "Yes, but I almost fucked a girl!" or "Yeah, I've had alot of girls". Be honest about it, and be cool about. Pretend that it's not a big deal.
s0n1ce: the girl won't just judge him on what he says, but also on how he says it. As long as he's confident and cool about it, it doesn't matter all that much how he answers.

And by all means, be careful about going CF. If you become joke too much about either of them (especially if you joke alot about being a virgin) it will come off as you have something to hide. A rule of thumb is to CF about it once, and then proceed by telling the truth.

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<Facher> Who the fuck drinks alcohol at 2 PM?
<Chief> Oh, you silly non-New Orleans people

I think you did exactly the right thing. And as previously said, it doesn't matter what you say, she's going to find out anyway. What matters is that you don't react, or get nervous about the question. Good work mate.
Cheers,
Jay

"Are girls more attracted to virgins or nonvirgins?" the answer is neither, as we all know attraction is built up by us. Threw our game. tell the truth (whatever it is) and make up a dhv why.


(A) Actually i am a virgin, iv' e never connected to someone enough to commit myself sexually. I don't just want to rush into it with just anyone.

(B) No, I was with (insert full name), she was my college sweet heart for a couple of years... she was sweet, but we broke up when she moved to (insert place) to focus on her career in (insert job)

(C) cocky funny - subject change

these are all good ways to go, i've tried (A) a few time (to test it) and depending on the delivery and how many hours into comfort you are
(i was at 5), it can seal the deal then and there.

No no . .

Unless your target is a 40 yr. old milf. NO CHICK wants to deal with a virgin. Girls want experience, a guy who's desired by other women . .. they want a fantasy.

Can you imagine anybody other than a 40 yr. old milf who harbors some crazy ass pedophile fantasy wanting to deal with pre-ejaculating, immature, 1 liner repeating newbies?

I'd risk lying to cover up the truth but then again, if you really are a premature ejaculating immature 1 liner repeater, I suppose you ought to stick with any game that you may have learned . . .

Lying to cover up that you're a virgin? She'll most likely see straight through it. Period.

You're right that it's not attractive, but hell, you'll have to start somewhere.

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<Facher> Who the fuck drinks alcohol at 2 PM?
<Chief> Oh, you silly non-New Orleans people