So I got a few number closes at the bar tonight. I'm wondering, where do i take it from here? What should I say in a text, and how soon should I text. Almost half of the numbers I closed said they had a bf already!

Most women only say they have a bf if they have had buyer's remorse. Even women with bfs, won’t mention their bfs if they are really into you. You may have seemed funny and confident at the club, but when they got home they may have changed their minds. Whether it was because they didn’t want to seem like a slut getting picked up at a bar, or they got better offers later, it doesn’t matter women often change their opinions of you later. The idea is that right off the bat, you must display the same confidence and higher value as you did during the last meeting. Juggler suggests that you call them, and start your conversation right where you left it last. He says that you shouldn’t even re-introduce yourself because this makes you seem like a stranger and less like a potential lover. He says that the most important thing is that you call with energy, passion, and confidence. If your calls and texts make you sound weak or desperate, then they will change their minds. He also says that the amount of time between calling them or texting them is directly related to how well your set went. If they were really interested with you, you can wait a little long, if not then they will forget all about you by the time you contact them. The main thing to remember is not to take these correspondences too seriously, if you are worried about doing it she will notice and think less of you. He says you should learn to love talking and chatting with women and make it a habit in your life.

I hate to thread jump here, but I don't have 30 points yet and I reaaly need advice. I met this HB8 the other night that I really liked. I don't normally like chics a lot right of the bat, but there was something unique about her. Anyways, we were at a local club that features live bands. It's Not really a dance club, but the SPAM is the same. So I see this girl that I think is just gorgeous. I give her an 8 cause that's what most of you would probably rate her, but to me she's a 10. She has the combination of features and style that I like, not that barbie doll look most call a 10. I felt a little intimidated so I didn't speak to her. Later on I caught her checking me out and had to go call her on it. Long story short we ended up over at the bar making out for like 30 minutes. Then I told her we needed to get out of sight of all these people cause we were making a spectacle. So she took me upstairs to a dark corner where no one was. I actually ended up taking her top off and, not to be graphic but, she started rubbing on my cock so i started rubbing on her and ended up fingering her. She actually wanted to f**k right there, but I had to refrain because I actually liked this girl (and I didn't have a condom. lol). After that we bounced to a bar across the street and just sat and had conversation for a while and she made a big deal that I had better call her and not just flake on her. She actually took my phone, put her number in it, and dialed her phone so she could have my number. So, after all of that I tried to text her 2 days later and she won't respond. I also sent her a friend request on myspace to which she has not responded. I know she saw the request because her last login date was a day after I sent it. This sux. I really want to see her again. What should I do? Dam buyer's remorse!!!!